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Just had a look at her TikTok after people mentioning it on here. I’m speechless, I feel so heartbroken for that beautiful boy, he was so adorable. I can’t say how I would be if I was grieving for my son as it something I never ever want to have to do, but I can guarantee you that I would never ever think of uploading a video of me cradling him for the world to see. I wouldn’t even want it recorded in the first place.
 
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I’ve just taken a look at the TikTok too and have reported it because it’s disgusting that anyone would share them cradling a deceased baby without regard for anyone else. So so triggering. That poor baby boy
 
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I don’t have TikTok but can’t believe she’s not only filmed herself in the chapel of rest but then uploaded it to tiktok for all to see?!?! Makes me so uncomfortable. Poor Jaxon, it’s so sad that even in death he’s being plastered all over social media
 
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Seen her TikToks utterly deplorable as is her behaviour. This might be on the back of grief though the GoFunds and the use of the money it’s so wrong it’s an utter disgrace.
 
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Honestly, I think her head is so far up her own arse, the only way she will learn anything is when her followers drop dramatically because the majority of her followers, followed for Jaxon. She basically sold her & Js souls for the gram & even in death, she is still trying to profit from him. She has a degree there that she could use. nurses are multi skilled. She doesnt have to work in a hospital. With all that money she has, she could easily afford to do a masters and specialise… or she could do the lip fillers like she was gonna do before. Obviously it doesn’t pay as much as the gram but soon enough she will have no choice!

Honestly she baffles me. Her ego is so massive she thought she knew better than doctors & consultants that had trained for 10+ years. Her actions may not have contributed to Js death but they certainly weren’t for the benefit of him. It was to make her life easier & now she’s paying for it. If she’s not on a full on narc & actually feels guilt, then this will stay with her for the rest oh her life. She has to live with that.
 
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Well well well look whose back up after her recent behaviour with the brand situ.

im not surprised really. Those who are new to her threads should go back to the beginning or at least last 3 and see what she was like with social media and looking after J.

it was extremely worrying and I was totally drawn into it at first so it was only when I read the threads that include knowledge from other SEN parents just how bad she was.

I’d like to think she’s some regret over her behaviours over the last 2 years but only she knows that.
It’s extremely sad he died, I was actually quite shocked when I’d read what was happening on her page but what went through my mind more was if she knew how sick he was why did she duck with his meds on her own, the feeding school debacle, ignore GOSH advice, poor management of his PEG site etc etc the list is quite long when you look back.

maybe she regrets how much she moaned about her life and how much she was tired and all that timeposting on SM when really she should have been doing things with J.

I thought she might have deleted her page for a bit but nopethere she is trying to roll in even more money to fund her lifestyle.

she’s a mother in grief BUT she’s still that selfish self entitled all about her person.
 
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It’s just wrong you don’t set up a business selling merchandise of your dead child . I really am in shock people think it’s normal it’s totally despicable. It’s always about money with her . I would have had more respect if she donated the go fund me to a good cause or set up something to help sen community but she isn’t interested at all she just wants cash to herself disgusting.
 
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What is the feeding school?
It's to try and get tube fed kids eating orally.

She had to get it from overseas as everyone here said it was a terrible idea.

It basically involves withholding tube feeds to force the child to try eating orally.

It ended with J losing so much weight he was hospitalised or nearly hospitalised I can't remember which.

His ribs were visible, he was gaunt. He was literally starved until someone stepped in and said stop. But her minions applauded how well he did as he licked some frazzles and "ate" a crumb of chocolate muffin
 
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It's to try and get tube fed kids eating orally.

She had to get it from overseas as everyone here said it was a terrible idea.

It basically involves withholding tube feeds to force the child to try eating orally.

It ended with J losing so much weight he was hospitalised or nearly hospitalised I can't remember which.

His ribs were visible, he was gaunt. He was literally starved until someone stepped in and said stop. But her minions applauded how well he did as he licked some frazzles and "ate" a crumb of chocolate muffin
oh my god. Oh my actual…
 
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It's to try and get tube fed kids eating orally.

She had to get it from overseas as everyone here said it was a terrible idea.

It basically involves withholding tube feeds to force the child to try eating orally.

It ended with J losing so much weight he was hospitalised or nearly hospitalised I can't remember which.

His ribs were visible, he was gaunt. He was literally starved until someone stepped in and said stop. But her minions applauded how well he did as he licked some frazzles and "ate" a crumb of chocolate muffin
Look at this photo; I’ve chosen it to keep his face out but u can see how thin he was and she let him get thinner
What must he have been thinking 😔
 

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Honestly, I think her head is so far up her own arse, the only way she will learn anything is when her followers drop dramatically because the majority of her followers, followed for Jaxon. She basically sold her & Js souls for the gram & even in death, she is still trying to profit from him. She has a degree there that she could use. nurses are multi skilled. She doesnt have to work in a hospital. With all that money she has, she could easily afford to do a masters and specialise… or she could do the lip fillers like she was gonna do before. Obviously it doesn’t pay as much as the gram but soon enough she will have no choice!

Honestly she baffles me. Her ego is so massive she thought she knew better than doctors & consultants that had trained for 10+ years. Her actions may not have contributed to Js death but they certainly weren’t for the benefit of him. It was to make her life easier & now she’s paying for it. If she’s not on a full on narc & actually feels guilt, then this will stay with her for the rest oh her life. She has to live with that.
Thing is , she never finished her preceptorship for newly qualified nurses, so would now struggle to get any decent job .....possibly in a nursing home but I don't see super nurse doing this somehow as she knows so much better than her peers
She did apply for MSc in health psychology but that's obviously on the back burner at the moment and she can't do aesthetics as they have now tightened regulations about who can now carry out these procedures and she would need a prescribers qualification for this ( which is only usually possible after you've gained a few years experience- which she doesn't have) so basically she's not left with many options
There's also the small matter of the NMC code of conduct ehich all nurses have to adhere to , both in public and indeed in personal life...she's not exactly a glowing example for the profession and if I was an employer I'd be rather unhappy about employing such a shady character ....there are several aspects of the code she'd have trouble complying with ( in particular parts 5, 20 &21 of the code)
Btw anyone can report a nurse to NMC if they believe they are not adhering to code and have concerns re their conduct
 
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She has limited comments on her post someone should direct her here. The feeding programe OMG the tube would be in place for feeding as perhaps his swallow was unsafe or he was at a risk of aspiration. Even if he could eat it would
be used for top up feeds and bolusing water etc for hydration. I can’t believe she would do that I am disgusted revolted that’s cruel essentially starving the poor child.
 
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She has limited comments on her post someone should direct her here. The feeding programe OMG the tube would be in place for feeding as perhaps his swallow was unsafe or he was at a risk of aspiration. Even if he could eat it would
be used for top up feeds and bolusing water etc for hydration. I can’t believe she would do that I am disgusted revolted that’s cruel essentially starving the poor child.
She 100% reads here! Whether or not she knows it’s back open or if she still thinks she’s untouchable is another thing
 
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Well well well look whose back up after her recent behaviour with the brand situ.

im not surprised really. Those who are new to her threads should go back to the beginning or at least last 3 and see what she was like with social media and looking after J.

it was extremely worrying and I was totally drawn into it at first so it was only when I read the threads that include knowledge from other SEN parents just how bad she was.

I’d like to think she’s some regret over her behaviours over the last 2 years but only she knows that.
It’s extremely sad he died, I was actually quite shocked when I’d read what was happening on her page but what went through my mind more was if she knew how sick he was why did she duck with his meds on her own, the feeding school debacle, ignore GOSH advice, poor management of his PEG site etc etc the list is quite long when you look back.

maybe she regrets how much she moaned about her life and how much she was tired and all that timeposting on SM when really she should have been doing things with J.

I thought she might have deleted her page for a bit but nopethere she is trying to roll in even more money to fund her lifestyle.

she’s a mother in grief BUT she’s still that selfish self entitled all about her person.
Would somebody explain the feeding school to me please x
 
Would somebody explain the feeding school to me please x
basically she wanted Jaxon to eat orally, her drs said it wasn’t good or a good time for him to be eating orally.
So she used go fund me money to pay a doctor in another country who told her to cut down his feeds so he would be hungry and eat but all it did was starve him into near enough a skeleton and considering he had a weak heart should have never been done in the first place but u know good old KT always knows best and since she starved him was when it seems to go very wrong and down hill slowly until it reaches the point we’re at now
 
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It was cruel to watch if you go back you will see posts she basically starved him and went against the doctors advise . How she’s got away with this il never know it’s absolutely shocking . All he would do was nibble a bit of cookie or lick a crisp he honestly could not eat so essentially she starved him .
 
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basically she wanted Jaxon to eat orally, her drs said it wasn’t good or a good time for him to be eating orally.
So she used go fund me money to pay a doctor in another country who told her to cut down his feeds so he would be hungry and eat but all it did was starve him into near enough a skeleton and considering he had a weak heart should have never been done in the first place but u know good old KT always knows best and since she starved him was when it seems to go very wrong and down hill slowly until it reaches the point we’re at now
Oh my God.That has actually brought a tear to my eye. The arrogance of the woman.

It was cruel to watch if you go back you will see posts she basically starved him and went against the doctors advise . How she’s got away with this il never know it’s absolutely shocking . All he would do was nibble a bit of cookie or lick a crisp he honestly could not eat so essentially she starved him .
I have just had a look. Jesus even his hair is falling out he looks awful bless him. Im surprised SS weren't involved to be honest.
 
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