Very true.Ding ding dang you nailed it
their lifestyle...they aren’t willing to adjust their lifestyle to accommodate Jackson’s development
I bought some of THE DUMBEST tit for my son and ya know live and learn but the one thing my husband and I definitely did was change our lifestyle to nurture our sons development
once again we aren’t perfect parents but we try our best
Sooooo WAIT a few months ago...they couldn’t even eat lunch out because they had to RUSH home for Jackpots nap
Christmas Eve, they spend ALL DING DANG DAY out without a single care for Jackpot being strapped down all day
And I'm not all gung ho on Tim's defense but I think that 99.9% of the stuff that happens re: Jackson is from Jenn's influence or her stomping her feet (metaphorically) until she gets her way (i.e. "we're doing it this way Tim, and you have zero input on it")
I mean, really - do we all think Tim excitedly wants Jenn and Jackson to go with him every single time to the parks now? I'm betting Tim would absolutely love just a bit of time by himself - and Jenn should WANT a bit of time to herself with Jackson! (and I'm not even talking about side action on Tim's part; I'm just talking about straight up being alone in the parks vlogging like at Gatorland that day)
Don't get me wrong, I cannot stand when Tim would shove plastic toys into a teething Jackson or attempt to push his little hands a certain way to get him to paint a certain direction but, that being said, I feel that - as a whole (I'm talking down the road too), I believe Tim will ultimately be the better parent.
I just get total vibes that Jenn is going to ultimately be a monster mother and create conflict between Tim and Jackson, sort of pitting them against each other to get her way and use each to their advantage - possibly emotionally manipulating them (and giving them guilt trips if she doesn't get what she wants).
I've seen it in my own family with the likes of "Jenn's" I deal with. JMHO.