I really feel sorry for J$....My friends daughter is only a month younger than him and she is so much more advanced. Almost potty trained and her talking is miles above him. We drove to pick up some kittens she was adopting. I drove and the whole ride there she was asking me questions. I understood her perfectly. My friend is a stay at home mom and actually spends time with her. Doesnt try to put her to bed the whole time. Guess what? She sleeps in a toddler bed. Who would've thought that? I know all kids are dfferent, but it's crazy....