Yep.Neither one should be controlling the other. Unless someone is doing something detrimental to their health/wellbeing. A relationship shouldn’t be about control, but Jenn LIVES for her ability to manipulate Tim. It’s sad to see the power she holds over him.
I always refer back to the engagement vlog. Love him or hate him - and whether or not one agrees or disagrees on a birthday engagement - Tim's heart was still in the right place and he was trying to do something nice for her and she fucked it up and he had to change his plans at the last minute.
There was your huge red flag, Tim.