I grew up with all sorts of arts an crafts especially things like playdoh/clay an I'd say my hand an eye coordination is great, I also had things like rollerblades, skateboards, poka stick, bike an those ring things with the ball in the middle for balance an coordination, so there's definitely more than enough out there to help a kid, I was in my 20s before I got my very first console, an while they can be good I do agree that he already gets way more screen time than a child should an they won't ever limit it because they just want whatever will keep him quietThere are plenty of ways to improve a child’s hand eye coordination without a video game. That child gets too much screen time as it is. They have ignored every red flag he has- especially his speech. A damn video game for a 4 yr is certainly not going to help his speech or social skills.
They have already ruined him in so many ways- why not f him up more with video games.
It's sad but the best way to help a kid with all these things is to actually sit down an spend time with them which they never do, they have a huge backyard so why not go out back an throw a ball back an forth, or sit down an make things with playdoh, get a colouring book an help him colour in the lines, put a huge ass old sheet in the garden an go paint, all these things not only get you involved with your kid but they help as well with so much
It's sad when you see kids just get handed a screen to keep them quiet an out the way, my cousin was allowed a iPad from toddler age an allowed to watch it for however long he wanted, he even sat at my bros wedding when he was 8 glued to it the entire way through the service an meal, hes practically mute because he's got 0 social skills because all he does is watch the damn thing, you can't ask him anything because theres no response from him, it's ridiculous an one of the reasons we give toys to my niece before screens, I'd rather freeze my absolute arse off throwing snowballs than sit an watch a cartoon