Yep.
My mother was similar to you when I was little. My father had our only car and he'd take it to work 8-6 like your DH. So if my mom and I needed to go anywhere, we'd walk to the bus stop and take the bus downtown or whatever... to go to the doctor, or pay bills, etc. OR we'd just walk - to the grocery store, to the library, etc. - and these were probably like 45-mins walks to places in all sorts of weather (snow, rain, etc.)
I know this was up north at the time, and Jenn is not likely to do that given where they live in Lake Nona and doubtful she'd ride the bus ... BUT don't they have another vehicle sitting there in the garage?
She's going to have to learn to suck it up for the sake of her children and start driving again.
Like someone else mentioned above, she's had plenty of time to fix some of her issues BEFORE they had kids... ya know, being infertile and all.
But now the
tit is hitting the literal fan and it's only going to get worse if she doesn't get herself in the right place mentally.
ETA: I 100% agree with
@Forest. I don't discount PPD but it's Jenn we're talking about. She's cried wolf for so many years about so many things, it's hard to take anything she says seriously at this point. So it's likely 90% true FOMO and 10% PPD, given her history.
And this is why you don't cry wolf, Jenn.