The Ingham Family #266 Jingle Bells, creepy smells, screeching all the way.

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I’m so sorry but Isabelle doesn’t have an authentic 17 year old life.

I’ve spent the afternoon with mine discussing her 18th plans, we’re off for a uni offer day to confirm her insurance choice. Unfortunately both her choices are in their stomping ground. Sorting out her driving test Nattering about her friends.

Izzy at 17 doesn’t seem to be doing this apart from her Mother’s say so.
 
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I’ve just watched this vlog, and I couldn’t agree more with you about Isla. Although like you said, I did say on a post the other day I do kind of feel sorry for her in terms of regression and lack of education and how clever she was etc. But oh my god, I’m sorry but she is annoying!! Even when Sarah had Esme & Isla talk about their new clothes, Esme was quite mature and saying why she likes them etc and Isla literally spoke over her and was on about her bloody pig hat! And when Jace was playing with the whack a mole, she did askhim tbh and waited for her turn but the way she snatched it then was rough with it 🙄 even Sarah said ‘alright, don’t knock the game out Isla!’ So even she must know what she’s like. Also, towards the end of the vlog when Sarah got Mila’s colour mat thing out, Sarah was showing the stamps and the other big paintbrush thing, Isla snatched it as soon as she put it down!
I always used to tiptoe around saying things about isla because I know she’s very popular on here and I realise that she is what her parents made her into. However she’s a big girl and because of that it has to be pointed out in situations mentioned by another poster, she could have broken Izzy’s legs jumping on her ! She throws herself about and pushes her whole weight into her sisters ! She must weigh a lot more than Esme and problsbly Izzy too at this point and definitely mila , we know she won’t bully jace anymore because he’s the golden boy and she must have been pulled up on that when she used to do it when he was little but we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors and when the camera is switched off. I feel like since so many people on here went on about how badly they felt for isla ( WE KNOW THEY READ HERE ) so in turn they made a point of now never telling her no ! She’s allowed to do and say more or less whatever she wants ( like with Jace ) and doesn’t get pulled up like Izzy , Esme or even mila. Isla was the obvious favourite golden child and now it’s jace. It seems as though isla being pushed out has resulted in them letting her eat whatever she wants whenever she wants and not correcting her behaviour when she’s loud or pushing or snatching. She’s almost 11 for heavens sake and she still eats with her fingers and has zero table manners and no social skills and interrupts everyone all the time. I know none of them are particularly good in that matter but isla behaves exactly like a 3 year old a lot of the time and she’s a BIG GIRL ! Being told she’s still a little girl and buying her clothes 3 sizes too small for her and encouraging her toddler behaviour is child cruelty surely ? She was a clever child at one point , or so they said ! Well it doesn’t show anymore ! It may end up that she is the one that will pay the ultimate price for their YouTube channel because atm it looks like she’s the one most effected. It’s made her unlikable in a lot of ways and I honestly can’t see anything getting better anytime soon. I can see her being frozen in time ! which happens with lots of children if they gave extra needs but isla wasn’t one of those children before ! They have done this to her !

Does anyone here work for child services or know anyone who does ? Is there any reason why nothing has been done ? Surely the authorities must have been told about this tit show and they can’t possibly agree with what they do and don’t do with their children ??? I’ve known families pulled up for way less and for one off incidents , these lot have had hundreds and hundreds ! 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
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Nothing more to add that hasn't already been said here by you good folks. However, I just cannot get my head around how these 2 narcissistic pathological liars live with themselves or ever sleep soundly at night!! The constant lying, surely when the girls watch vlogs back they have to question why their dick head parents are having to lie about 'home schooling', days out with 'friends' or whatever the bullshit story is that day. They have to wonder why they aren't being educated to an acceptable level, why they don't have actual social lives like normal kids of their ages. It is beyond cruel and must be a complete head duck for them 😞
 
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EVERYONE HEADING OFF ON SEPARATE ADVENTURES!

Vlog begins with Lazy teaching Mila the words in and out using a shape puzzle. It’s a shame she didn’t use Creepstopher as a teaching tool by kicking him out. It’s a busy morning with back to school. The Christmas decorations don’t feel the same. Isla wants hers to stay up all year. She wants hers to come down last. Lazy has fire in her to organise everything, including the play room again. She wants to shuffle everything around. All Creepstopher is doing is trying to convince everyone to buy the RV. He was showing the girls pictures of it. Buying it will bankrupt them. They cost about £50k minimum for second hand and a few years ago they had £100k savings. This was 2019/20 so after the nonce situation. No way do they have that sort of money now with the way they spend and dwindling earnings. YouTube take a huge 45% cut of whatever they earn too. Lazy agrees they need a bigger space. They’re going to IKEA. Isabelle is staying out tonight and maybe tomorrow night. They’re dropping her off at Meadowhall. They want shelving for the garage so they can put storage boxes all around the outside of the garage. They throw things in there and it all gets lost.

Lazy is printing off learning resource sheets for Jace. She’s not looking to have structure but wants a routine where they have half an hour each day to go through numbers, letters and colours.it will be fun. Footage of Lazy on the blurred out laptop.

Isabelle comes downstairs and says she has arranged to meet someone in 20 minutes. She wants to set off right now. Esme and Isla are matching in their heart jeans and Hawkins High jackets. Lazy and Creepstopher couldn’t convince them to go to Ikea as it’s boring apart from the mini trolleys. Isla feels guilty. Last time they went Creepstopher sent them a photo of him eating meatballs so they sent a photo of Isla doing headstands on the sofa to get him back. Jace finds a dummy after not having one for a month.

Lazy has got her resources together for Jace but they need to set off half an hour ago to drop Isabelle off. They look nowhere near ready to leave and things are delayed further by Lazy filming the kids on the scuttle bugs.

Driving. Isabelle has been dropped off. Creepstopher cannot walk as his foot hurts. He and Lazy talk about when he pretended he lost his shoe on the van trip. They’re doing the post Christmas storage run. Everything needs to come down tomorrow and it’s well busy. He wants to leave everything up until February. They’re off away next week so need to to do the rapids this weekend. He loves the house as it is now.

Creepstopher shows us the shelving. He needs quite a few and doesn’t want to be precious. They don’t need to look pretty. He goes with the wooden ones as they’re cheaper. Mila sits and taps at a laptop. Then they go and look in a drawer.

Jace wants a bunk bed. He wants to climb on the top bunk but Creepstopher says he’s not allowed. Mila crawls into a bed when he tells her to. He asks her what cats do. She doesn’t want the toy in her bed. He says goodnight to “mewees”. Creepstopher says the bed is beautiful but not as beautiful as Jace’s big boy bed. He demands Mila get out of the bed. The Inghams have the place to themselves.

It shocks Lazy how expensive storage boxes are. Why is it £25? They’re sly in Ikea because it’s extra for a lid. They need them for the Christmas trees. Lazy gets scented candles and Jace and Mila cannot get enough of them. She and Creepstopher also smell them.

The Inghams are back at the car. They didn’t get the shelving. They got to the collection bit and there was only one in stock. Creepstopher wanted 5 so they bought some on Amazon. They bought the plastic boxes, plastic trays for Jace, plastic plates and storage bags. They’re off to Meadowhall as they’re hungry. Creepstopher thinks they’re going vegetarian but Lazy doesn’t want to. Prediction: they will go vegetarian.

The Inghams have come to TGI Fridays as it’s Friday tomorrow. They do a deal for two courses Monday-Friday. Starters have arrived and the kids are hungry. They’ve gone for maple and cheese jacket skins and sesame chicken. Footage of Jace eating broccoli, his absolute favourite. Dinner time lapse.

Esme and Isla have been dropped him in time for Creepstopher to send them a picture of his meal. He’s so mean. They’re heading home with a treat for them. There’s a doughnut dessert stall so they’ll do a detour. They’re having a sleepover tonight.

Creepstopher films Mila carrying a balloon. He reminisces about being young. Mila has one balloon but of course golden child has three. Apparently he got them for the girls. Esme gets the red one, Isla the clear and Jace the white. Mila keeps wandering off and Creepstopher is trying to call her back whilst filming Jace.

Mila refuses to be carried or hold hands. Creepstopher has had a love-hate relationship with meat for a while. He wasted the whole meal as he has gone off meat. He has been umming and aahing with himself. He’s done and cannot eat meat anymore. He’s going full on veggie baby again. He feels ill at the thought of meat. Except when he can get a Big Mac in McDonald’s.

Lazy has decided to get the girls a bubble tea as the queue is usually so big but it isn’t right now. Probably because it’s 7pm on a Thursday night and people have better things to do like work. Creepstopher said it would be ruined by the time they got home. She told him they have a takeaway option. He grumpily said he would sit with Mila whilst Lazy got the teas. He told Lazy to not get doughnuts and bubble tea, one or the other. She has noticed the doughnut shop is next door so they’re getting both.

Bubble tea bought. Lazy’s eyes nearly pop out of her head at the sight of the stuffed cookies. Screeching of “mama mama mama mama” from cleeeeeeeveeeeeeer boooooooy. He likes the look of the kinder NYC cookie. Lazy finds the one - a rainbow burst ring. She shows us all the products in the cabinet one by one. The cookie bowls are bigger than Jace’s head. Lazy shows us the bag as they walk out.

Esme and Isla run to the door. Prinny barks. Lazy gets them to close their eyes. Eyes open and screeching commences. The screaming over bubble tea is not normal. Lazy tells them to go and open the front door for Creepstopher. The tea is passion fruit and rainbow boba. The girls take the box out of the bag. Lazy says they’re for everyone. The girls look like they might cry. She got four doughnuts; kinder, galaxy, pink sprinkle and rainbow. Each looks to be at least 700 calories each. Isla takes the bubble tea out of the bag. Lazy gets them to taste it. She was desperate to taste them on the way home but didn’t. Isla offers Lazy some of hers but she declines.

They chop up two bad boy doughnuts. Jace wants to try the rainbow one but Lazy says they’re not trying it right now so he chooses the pink one. He has been asleep and just woke up. He sounds on the verge of tears. Camera cuts. Jace wants his piece cut up smaller so Lazy obliges.

Last night of the cosy twinkly lights. Creepstopher hoovers. Lazy tells Jace to come out from behind the tree. She was hoping to do more jigsaw puzzle but needs to print off Jace’s worksheets and laminate them. She’s never done repeating patterns with him so has printed off snakes. Jace either loves or hates things. Sometimes he has no patience so she’s trying to do things he’ll engage in. She’s also printed off pen control monsters. He likes shapes so there are trace the shape. She has printed off Jace’s name in capitals. There are drawings of hot chocolate numbered 1-10 for him to arrange in the right order and winter counting. The final sheet is one where he has to find the letters of his name, which have been jumbled up with other letters. Lazy will use the dot blotter. The sheets will last a few days.

It’s finally time to sit down and watch Treason. Creepstopher watched more than episode two the other day in the van and lied to Lazy that he hadn’t watched it. It’s a sacrifice that he’s agreed to watch it again. Esme and Isla show us the pom poms she made out of her yarn.

End of vlog

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You just made me snort and wake up my husband.
EVERYONE HEADING OFF ON SEPARATE ADVENTURES!

Vlog begins with Lazy teaching Mila the words in and out using a shape puzzle. It’s a shame she didn’t use Creepstopher as a teaching tool by kicking him out. It’s a busy morning with back to school. The Christmas decorations don’t feel the same. Isla wants hers to stay up all year. She wants hers to come down last. Lazy has fire in her to organise everything, including the play room again. She wants to shuffle everything around. All Creepstopher is doing is trying to convince everyone to buy the RV. He was showing the girls pictures of it. Buying it will bankrupt them. They cost about £50k minimum for second hand and a few years ago they had £100k savings. This was 2019/20 so after the ponce situation. No way do they have that sort of money now with the way they spend and dwindling earnings. YouTube take a huge 45% cut of whatever they earn too. Lazy agrees they need a bigger space. They’re going to IKEA. Isabelle is staying out tonight and maybe tomorrow night. They’re dropping her off at Meadowhall. They want shelving for the garage so they can put storage boxes all around the outside of the garage. They throw things in there and it all gets lost.

Lazy is printing off learning resource sheets for Jace. She’s not looking to have structure but wants a routine where they have half an hour each day to go through numbers, letters and colours.it will be fun. Footage of Lazy on the blurred out laptop.

Isabelle comes downstairs and says she has arranged to meet someone in 20 minutes. She wants to set off right now. Esme and Isla are matching in their heart jeans and Hawkins High jackets. Lazy and Creepstopher couldn’t convince them to go to Ikea as it’s boring apart from the mini trolleys. Isla feels guilty. Last time they went Creepstopher sent them a photo of him eating meatballs so they sent a photo of Isla doing headstands on the sofa to get him back. Jace finds a dummy after not having one for a month.

Lazy has got her resources together for Jace but they need to set off half an hour ago to drop Isabelle off. They look nowhere near ready to leave and things are delayed further by Lazy filming the kids on the scuttle bugs.

Driving. Isabelle has been dropped off. Creepstopher cannot walk as his foot hurts. He and Lazy talk about when he pretended he lost his shoe on the van trip. They’re doing the post Christmas storage run. Everything needs to come down tomorrow and it’s well busy. He wants to leave everything up until February. They’re off away next week so need to to do the rapids this weekend. He loves the house as it is now.

Creepstopher shows us the shelving. He needs quite a few and doesn’t want to be precious. They don’t need to look pretty. He goes with the wooden ones as they’re cheaper. Mila sits and taps at a laptop. Then they go and look in a drawer.

Jace wants a bunk bed. He wants to climb on the top bunk but Creepstopher says he’s not allowed. Mila crawls into a bed when he tells her to. He asks her what cats do. She doesn’t want the toy in her bed. He says goodnight to “mewees”. Creepstopher says the bed is beautiful but not as beautiful as Jace’s big boy bed. He demands Mila get out of the bed. The Inghams have the place to themselves.

It shocks Lazy how expensive storage boxes are. Why is it £25? They’re sly in Ikea because it’s extra for a lid. They need them for the Christmas trees. Lazy gets scented candles and Jace and Mila cannot get enough of them. She and Creepstopher also smell them.

The Inghams are back at the car. They didn’t get the shelving. They got to the collection bit and there was only one in stock. Creepstopher wanted 5 so they bought some on Amazon. They bought the plastic boxes, plastic trays for Jace, plastic plates and storage bags. They’re off to Meadowhall as they’re hungry. Creepstopher thinks they’re going vegetarian but Lazy doesn’t want to. Prediction: they will go vegetarian.

The Inghams have come to TGI Fridays as it’s Friday tomorrow. They do a deal for two courses Monday-Friday. Starters have arrived and the kids are hungry. They’ve gone for maple and cheese jacket skins and sesame chicken. Footage of Jace eating broccoli, his absolute favourite. Dinner time lapse.

Esme and Isla have been dropped him in time for Creepstopher to send them a picture of his meal. He’s so mean. They’re heading home with a treat for them. There’s a doughnut dessert stall so they’ll do a detour. They’re having a sleepover tonight.

Creepstopher films Mila carrying a balloon. He reminisces about being young. Mila has one balloon but of course golden child has three. Apparently he got them for the girls. Esme gets the red one, Isla the clear and Jace the white. Mila keeps wandering off and Creepstopher is trying to call her back whilst filming Jace.

Mila refuses to be carried or hold hands. Creepstopher has had a love-hate relationship with meat for a while. He wasted the whole meal as he has gone off meat. He has been umming and aahing with himself. He’s done and cannot eat meat anymore. He’s going full on veggie baby again. He feels ill at the thought of meat. Except when he can get a Big Mac in McDonald’s.

Lazy has decided to get the girls a bubble tea as the queue is usually so big but it isn’t right now. Probably because it’s 7pm on a Thursday night and people have better things to do like work. Creepstopher said it would be ruined by the time they got home. She told him they have a takeaway option. He grumpily said he would sit with Mila whilst Lazy got the teas. He told Lazy to not get doughnuts and bubble tea, one or the other. She has noticed the doughnut shop is next door so they’re getting both.

Bubble tea bought. Lazy’s eyes nearly pop out of her head at the sight of the stuffed cookies. Screeching of “mama mama mama mama” from cleeeeeeeveeeeeeer boooooooy. He likes the look of the kinder NYC cookie. Lazy finds the one - a rainbow burst ring. She shows us all the products in the cabinet one by one. The cookie bowls are bigger than Jace’s head. Lazy shows us the bag as they walk out.

Esme and Isla run to the door. Prinny barks. Lazy gets them to close their eyes. Eyes open and screeching commences. The screaming over bubble tea is not normal. Lazy tells them to go and open the front door for Creepstopher. The tea is passion fruit and rainbow boba. The girls take the box out of the bag. Lazy says they’re for everyone. The girls look like they might cry. She got four doughnuts; kinder, galaxy, pink sprinkle and rainbow. Each looks to be at least 700 calories each. Isla takes the bubble tea out of the bag. Lazy gets them to taste it. She was desperate to taste them on the way home but didn’t. Isla offers Lazy some of hers but she declines.

They chop up two bad boy doughnuts. Jace wants to try the rainbow one but Lazy says they’re not trying it right now so he chooses the pink one. He has been asleep and just woke up. He sounds on the verge of tears. Camera cuts. Jace wants his piece cut up smaller so Lazy obliges.

Last night of the cosy twinkly lights. Creepstopher hoovers. Lazy tells Jace to come out from behind the tree. She was hoping to do more jigsaw puzzle but needs to print off Jace’s worksheets and laminate them. She’s never done repeating patterns with him so has printed off snakes. Jace either loves or hates things. Sometimes he has no patience so she’s trying to do things he’ll engage in. She’s also printed off pen control monsters. He likes shapes so there are trace the shape. She has printed off Jace’s name in capitals. There are drawings of hot chocolate numbered 1-10 for him to arrange in the right order and winter counting. The final sheet is one where he has to find the letters of his name, which have been jumbled up with other letters. Lazy will use the dot blotter. The sheets will last a few days.

It’s finally time to sit down and watch Treason. Creepstopher watched more than episode two the other day in the van and lied to Lazy that he hadn’t watched it. It’s a sacrifice that he’s agreed to watch it again. Esme and Isla show us the pom poms she made out of her yarn.

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*Everyone heading off to their separate bedrooms*
 
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I’m sure everyone has noticed that she now hides the amount of likes on most of her Instagram posts , especially the ones with Jace in. It can’t be to protect peoples identities because A she doesn’t give a tit about other people and B it actually tells you the names of some of the people who liked when she hides the count. 😆

It’s really amusing because if she considers the likes to be an adequate amount she will leave them but if they are not she hides them 🤫 I hope someone doesn’t come and tell me now that Instagram do that it’s not her doing it ? Or I’ll have egg 🍳 on my face for sure ! lol

Either / or I’ve started to find it amusing her pushing jace in everyone face as no one likes the kid apart from a handful of die hard ifam and it’s obvious most of them are just saying so to lick her toad arse ! 😆 I once said that Sarah and I where similarly proportioned ( I meant when she’s slimmer and I don’t have a toad bum ) I hope not anyway 🤣

Ribbit ! 🐸

Get to the point loo ….. sorry ( I do go onnnnnn don’t I ) 😄
SO YEAH , If she keeps pushing him in front of the camera all the time half of the watchers will stop as they can’t stand watching him and the other half will stop through boredom so let her carry on with her posts talking about his ‘ beautiful perfect face ‘ 👀 😵‍💫 and hours of him jabbering often inaudible shite 💤 ! It will be the final kiss of death to their YT channel ! 🥰
 
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I was often left alone with my younger sibling at 13, but then again my parents weren’t broadcasting it on YouTube knowing hundreds of what they call ‘crazy stalkers’ had our address.

I get that it wasn’t live time but if it happens once it happens often and god knows who could be lurking around.
 
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Poor Esmé is always lumbered with Isla and you can tell she doesn’t want to be, but is scared to say. I bet Lazy blackmails her to after that time Isla was crying on the stairs in the old house because Esmé started to spend more time with Isabelle. If Isla wants to be a giant baby, then that’s her problem, don’t drag Esmé into her attention seeking antics by forcing “sleepovers” and making Esmé look after Isla and match outfits.
 
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Tattlers, I never thought I'd see the day when my household and the Minghams had something in common!!!

Here at 'hatetealovewine' hq, we did indeed have 'everyone headed off on separate adventures' (there's 2 still hanging about after the festivities)

One went to work

One went to the tidy tip to get rid of the excess Christmas rubbish (OK it was all bottles)

One went into the loft with all decorations

And I went to the supermarket to restock the fridge yet again.

We all met around the kitchen table to eat our evening meal (no it was not slop laden with cheese) and discuss our very exciting adventures.

I'm really sorry Tattlers but it was not vlogged.
 
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Random question but do they have a TV licence? They never seem to watch live TV or mention anything they've watched other than something on Netflix.
 
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Does anyone here work for child services or know anyone who does ? Is there any reason why nothing has been done ? Surely the authorities must have been told about this tit show and they can’t possibly agree with what they do and don’t do with their children ??? I’ve known families pulled up for way less and for one off incidents , these lot have had hundreds and hundreds ! 🤷🏼‍♀️
I think that many on this site are quite rose tinted glasses about the so called child protection services in this and most other western societies. They target the poor and the marginalised above all. They do not speak truth to power. They legitimise the power. It's why the Lambeth Care homes abuses went on for decades and still no one intrinsically involved in those abuses has been appropriately punished.

YouTube influencers and the billions in advertising dollars they mean to Google are at the present time almost completely unregulated. Highlighting child abuse within the influencer sphere even by a channel which is such low hanging fruit as this lot would open a floodgate of similar and probably far worse cases across the globe. A flood of such cases would naturally result in a public outcry demanding that child protection regulations become universal.

YouTube keep promoting themselves as a safe space for children. Obviously they are not but Google's PR is pushing that message specifically to avoid pressure being applied to governments to take matters into their own hands and bring in regulations such as France introduced only a year ago. Such regulations would be a major threat to many of these far larger, far greater wealth generating content creators - and therefore to Google itself and their bottom line.

For all we know several complaints may already have been made to social services and the person who answered the phone or opened the email may have been keen to investigate. They will have kicked it up to someone higher to see what the process involved and it got stymied by a higher up whose willingness to work the system, not rock the boat and not take on those with resources which ensure they can fight back ensures their own job security.
 
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Right something about Lazys Ugg Boots have been bothering me for ages. My friend has them and Lazys just didn't seem right but I couldn't put my finger on it! Until this morning!....
Lets play a little game of spot the difference!
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Right something about Lazys Ugg Boots have been bothering me for ages. My friend has them and Lazys just didn't seem right but I couldn't put my finger on it! Until this morning!....
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I assume Big Sares has the knockoffs, as hers are elastic sided and lack the back label. But tbh with you whether Sares got hers at Ugg or Prada the only thing I think of when I see her in them is I bet they pong summat rotten because they sppear to bathe very rarely and never very thoroughly.
 
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Random question but do they have a TV licence? They never seem to watch live TV or mention anything they've watched other than something on Netflix.
I think most people don’t watch regular tv anymore lol. Most people I know don’t. I very rarely do.
I don’t think there’s a way for us to know whether they have a tv license lol
 
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I cannot get my head around how she brought the kids bubble tea and those donuts home. They never burn a calory off so why have this much more input. They will eventually get diabetes or whatever other illnesses. I mean i have sweet tooth myself but not like that amount.
Seeing Isla grab the bit with the most cream on was typical. And then Esme shifting the cream around with her - probably unwashed ✋️- had me gag a lil

Feed them something decent fgs.
Doesn't help saying the golden boy loves a stem of broccoli !!!!!
 
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I think that many on this site are quite rose tinted glasses about the so called child protection services in this and most other western societies. They target the poor and the marginalised above all. They do not speak truth to power. They legitimise the power. It's why the Lambeth Care homes abuses went on for decades and still no one intrinsically involved in those abuses has been appropriately punished.

YouTube influencers and the billions in advertising dollars they mean to Google are at the present time almost completely unregulated. Highlighting child abuse within the influencer sphere even by a channel which is such low hanging fruit as this lot would open a floodgate of similar and probably far worse cases across the globe. A flood of such cases would naturally result in a public outcry demanding that child protection regulations become universal.

YouTube keep promoting themselves as a safe space for children. Obviously they are not but Google's PR is pushing that message specifically to avoid pressure being applied to governments to take matters into their own hands and bring in regulations such as France introduced only a year ago. Such regulations would be a major threat to many of these far larger, far greater wealth generating content creators - and therefore to Google itself and their bottom line.

For all we know several complaints may already have been made to social services and the person who answered the phone or opened the email may have been keen to investigate. They will have kicked it up to someone higher to see what the process involved and it got stymied by a higher up whose willingness to work the system, not rock the boat and not take on those with resources which ensure they can fight back ensures their own job security.
Unfortunately this is very true. Like I’ve said before I’ve had to report more than one too many families because I somewhat work in that field. As long as a child has everything they need (food, a roof over their head, clothes, don’t have dirt all over them and don’t look beat up..) nothing will be done. I ran into this problem recently. The child is left alone or with strangers for 12-13 hours a day at 5 years old. She gets sent to kindergarten with severe ear infections with meds in her backpack and a house key so she can let herself in when she’s home alone.. But she always looks clean, her hair is done and she isn’t bruised more than the regular child at that age, so there’s nothing anyone will do because nothing bad has happened to her yet. To say it’s frustrating is an understatement.
 
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Random question but do they have a TV licence? They never seem to watch live TV or mention anything they've watched other than something on Netflix.
I don't think that's unusual. We only watch a few shows on 'normal telly' when they have series running. Taskmaster, Have I Got News For You, Bake Off, and Strictly. Other than that we just rotate streaming services.
 
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They’re having a sleepover tonight.

I know it's a tiny issue in the grand scheme of things, especially considering the other bigger issues with the Ingham family.

But it's not a bleeping sleepover if you sleep in your sister's bedroom. A sleepover is where you go to someone elses house, or invite friends to sleep at your house.


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Doesn't help saying the golden boy loves a stem of broccoli !!!!!
She forgot for a moment that she's told us before that broccoli is his favourite. She was filming him eating it, waiting on a reaction. She said to him "brave the broccoli" and then said "what do you think?" As if he'd never had it before, or at least not had it for a long time.
 
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