Morris1107
Chatty Member
So from what I'm getting is Esme and Isla were left alone to work independently (as normal) while lazy collected leaves to do yet another activity with golden boy. I'm sorry, but what... Every day it's yet another activity for Jace, yet he seems to learn nothing. Most 3-4 year olds are recognising simple words, especially their name, can count, can recognise colours, numbers, shapes. Jace lacks these simple abilities unless his mother prompts him. So these activities are a waste of time. She complains of mom guilt, she does nothing with those girls unless it involves going shopping. Esme made her costume herself, no help from mother dearest, why bless her she needs a costume, it's not as if she has friends who are going to invite her to a party. What happened to Lottie? When do you see her sit down and interact with Isla over something that interests the child, spend an hour with the child find her a hobby, an interest, or you know do some real school work with her. What about Mila, why not do some learning activities with her, why is it always Jace.
It's like Jace has become the poster child of the Ingham's, he can do no wrong. Mila bullies him. You hear a scuffle in the background, then it's an argument between them, I'm sorry, but how does a 16 month old argue, it's Jace bullying/taking whatever off the baby. He's not a likeable child, due to Sarah's favouritism of him. He would be due to start school this coming September, can you imagine that. His first day, his hair in bunches/a French plait someone or another child commenting on the little girl. It's a wonder she's not sending him, just so she can get her soap box out and spout how, everyone either loved him and commented on kind, loving, intelligent, so far ahead he is, he jumping a few classes due to her super duper home schooling. Or how everyone is ignorant and boys can have long hair, in bunches with pink bows, carry pink sparkly bags and everyone is jealous because Jace was so very much cleaverer than their child, their just haters. See Sarah you're missing out not sending clever boy to school.
Sarah, Chris you need to remember you have 5 children in your care, Chris in your case if rumors are correct you might actually have 6 you need to act as if you have those 5, not just Jace. If you're insistent on homeschooling, start doing it correctly. There is no way they are learning adequately in an hour, they need to be doing a school day, 5-6 hrs worth of work, proper lessons, not BBC bite size or whatever drivel you're getting them to copy. You've basically failed your eldest, buck up Esme might yet be able to pass a couple of GCSEs. Stop wasting your time on Jace, get him into a nursery, he might learn a few useful things, like how to share, how to be nice to others, how to be quiet. Hopefully he'll meet his match, the child that won't stand for his crap, his constant snatching. Mila might enjoy a couple of hour respite from his constant bullying.
Most of all learn how to treat all your children as equals. That they're all loved and valued the same.
It's like Jace has become the poster child of the Ingham's, he can do no wrong. Mila bullies him. You hear a scuffle in the background, then it's an argument between them, I'm sorry, but how does a 16 month old argue, it's Jace bullying/taking whatever off the baby. He's not a likeable child, due to Sarah's favouritism of him. He would be due to start school this coming September, can you imagine that. His first day, his hair in bunches/a French plait someone or another child commenting on the little girl. It's a wonder she's not sending him, just so she can get her soap box out and spout how, everyone either loved him and commented on kind, loving, intelligent, so far ahead he is, he jumping a few classes due to her super duper home schooling. Or how everyone is ignorant and boys can have long hair, in bunches with pink bows, carry pink sparkly bags and everyone is jealous because Jace was so very much cleaverer than their child, their just haters. See Sarah you're missing out not sending clever boy to school.
Sarah, Chris you need to remember you have 5 children in your care, Chris in your case if rumors are correct you might actually have 6 you need to act as if you have those 5, not just Jace. If you're insistent on homeschooling, start doing it correctly. There is no way they are learning adequately in an hour, they need to be doing a school day, 5-6 hrs worth of work, proper lessons, not BBC bite size or whatever drivel you're getting them to copy. You've basically failed your eldest, buck up Esme might yet be able to pass a couple of GCSEs. Stop wasting your time on Jace, get him into a nursery, he might learn a few useful things, like how to share, how to be nice to others, how to be quiet. Hopefully he'll meet his match, the child that won't stand for his crap, his constant snatching. Mila might enjoy a couple of hour respite from his constant bullying.
Most of all learn how to treat all your children as equals. That they're all loved and valued the same.