The Chateau Diaries #123 Natalia .O bullies Selmar, Stephanie J. hides the accounts, business as usual at LL

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Also sharing the spirit with Francesca: Will the refugee be featured in the vlogs? (rethorical question). Will she get a
share of the YT earnings from those videos? (non-rethorical question), or will that $ boost be used to purchase more
expensive booze and finance SJ's upcoming travels?

S: Welcome Olga, who arrived after a 84 hours Flixbus trip directly from the Polish border. I paid for with my own money, don't worry, no patreon money was used. Though I paid with my platin card I could not get an upgrade so she must be really tired, but she promised to cook her popular borscht tomorrow right away. Can't wait to try it. There's another suprise: Olga managed tobring some original fabergé eggs with her. Unbelievable! She said they were 300 years in the family but because the last zar was a relative of Queen Victoria and Queen Victoria was from UK and also a Royal just like Marie Antoinette she feels it would be just right if the eggs came to LaLande. Also Faberge spoke French so this is a sign: they simply belong to LaLande. Phil and I went to IKEA right away and bought a Billy shelf to store them. I hot glued my 12000€ Fortuny fabric and it looks fabulous! In the next patreon Video you can see how we put the shlef into the chapel, because I felt this is just the right place to exhibit them till we can use them on the next Easter egg hunt.
Unfortunately one broke but amazing Phil managed to replace the 10000carat golden shell with a Kinder surprise, you won't see a difference. Merci beaucoup Henri, who once again brought the right person to LaLande

 

[MojoDublin]

@Linus you little beauty


tattle life
tattlers don’t rattle
Hopefully you’ll see the funny side of this .

 

[Linus]

If I was Selmar I would google if Argentina is known to do Vodoo.... Just saying.

I'm the one standing up for him. Even sent them kudos for speaking up (twice!),
and I'm Argentinian.

Oh, the sweet irony.

 

[Granola Chic]

Splitting up with two little children, no matter how much it seems to make sense at the time, will mar them forever. I've talked with too many kids that always start the conversation with, "My parents split up when I was young" to know, no good will come from the situation.

My prediction: Dan will slowly see less and less of the boys until the boys do not want to see him.

I really thought he was out busting his ass to make a better life for his family.

Annalise sleeps alone every night with those two little boys. She has the weight of the world on her shoulders.

Hey Dan, she probably took so long picking you up because she had to wrangle two little boys breakfast, then into coats and shoes, and get herself ready for work. Annalise does this day after day, while you are busy with your fake YouTuber friends.
You can't even be responsible enough to fix your van so you can drive there yourself.

 

[Arfarf]

I do my best not to quote, reply, or give likes to those posts. I don't want to perpetuate or give them traction. If we ignore them will they go away?

Well crap.
I like the posts that I like.
I too am not tech savvy or good at detecting flying monkeys. Even when you guys talk in "code" about who it is or "obvious" to many who they are, I can't figure it out...until YEP! their posting stops.
I am just sad about the relationship of the hour going south as I had high hopes for them and was picking up on Dan ( who I really enjoyed back in the day) getting too full of himself....
And my ESPN alarm was buzzing off the charts that things were going downhill....
So.
MY disappointment with Dan is that it IS obvious that some of his failure in the relationship was caving into the LIE that is "Stephany Jarvis."
There cannot be a doubt in anyone's mind that HER shitty influence supported the dissolution of Dan's relationship with Annalise.
So. Again. I will agree when someone on here that says Dan is a starry- eyed follower now of the misfits and their Love, Life and Laughter.
We surely do not know what goes on behind closed doors. But having lived as long as I have , it is staring us straight in the face that his association with that dump did not HELP his family life....and HE fell for it.
I couldn't be more disappointed if he was my own kid.
As I tell my boys....close one door before you open another. And I am not talking about just affairs.
I am talking about Fanny helping to facilitate the end by offering Dan a place to escape and him taking it.
Rent a room, kid, instead of spending money on yourself trying to fit in with that group that buys, buys, buys...but with OTHERS' money.
It does take two to make a relationship end.
I am just disgusted with Dan's filming HIS version and trying to control the narrative to save face.
Keep it private??
Quit talking and speculating on it?
Then THEY should have addressed it quietly months ago, together on their Patreon.... Stopped their channel and he could have been living quietly up SJ's ass out in the open since last October. And getting the big bucks( yeah right) from his glorious employer, Fanny!
And maybe for us naive Tattlers..send us a smoke signal for those trying to deflect.
I have been called horrible names in the past by some for making innocent comments on my part on here, so I try to not to voice anything much anymore.... And now I am getting schooled in what I can like or not.

All I know is that I don't like, SJ, Snorts, Nutty, Dana, Potty, or Dan's bad choices.

And I do know that I like Pie!

 

[Lady Rosalie]

After much thought, Selmar, dude. I get it.

You voiced your opinion publicly twice, and then retracted. If you have trouble standing up for yourself, do it for your lady. You seem kind hearted and you never meant any harm to anyone at Lalande. Countless vlogs feature your helping hands. No one knows what really went down, but it seems a few people owe you an apology.

Tattlers can watch the video here:

Emalm video - The Story

Emalm video sharing.<br>Speaking up

emalm.com

Hero of the day goes to @Linus

 

[Phoenix Richards-Bingham]

I've unsubbed from all of the chateau vlogs. And as soon as I saw Dan's "break up" vlog I unsubbed from him. He broke my heart. I've always been a "Dan-fender" until now but no more. I, too, hope that Annalise takes the boys back to the UK...get them out of that run down house that Dan stopped renovating as soon as he decided to do that "man cave/studio". He was bitten by that Black Widow, Stephanie and fell into the vlog-verse...Shame on you, Dan.

I'll still check in here from time to time to see if any new developments happen but I personally don't think anything will happen to Stephanie...she's oiled up like a pig at a rodeo and will slither her way out of any situation. It won't keep me from hoping, though.

One more thing...I just want to say...RUN, KIRSTIE!!!!!...She'll have your marriage broken up next if you don't get far far away from there. Lalande is cursed.

 

[Clara Burnett]

Seeing the really malicious posts here over the past couple of days, shows clearly how much this group has been infiltrated by SJ's flying monkeys. I am appalled at some of the awful things I have read here, based primarily on speculation and a desire to cause hurt. The worst of the posts have come from new people . Despite them signing up here, I won't call them Tattlers, they are not!
I am truly ashamed that we have allowed this to happen unchecked. This isn't gossip about a wealthy, manipulative woman anymore, this is about causing upset to a young family at a difficult time under the guise of concern for Annalise. We can all feel for them but we don't know what has happened between them. The rumours of affairs, of a co-ercive and abusive relationship, attempts to defraud by confusing timelines etc. are gradually being presented as fact. Maybe there is something in some of it but none of us are privy to the details, especially those empty vessels shouting loudest. The long standing members here need to look round and see what is happening here.

I hear you, Jeeves, and totally agree. This is why I chose to not talk about it before and I'm glad I did. Even now, revealing what I know to be true about what actually happened, would not make an end to these vicious attacks, so I keep my dirty mouth shut. I do hope the truth will come out when it needs to and the ones who deserve blame will receive just that.
Like you, I do feel responsible as a frequent poster here and wonder what we can do to stop it, without losing our main focus. Any suggestions?

 

[Clara Burnett]

Oh wow, so the gullible grannies now have a dilemma, if they are patreons of Stephanie AND Selmar..wonder how that will play out? Stephanie could now have a topic for her next patreon vlog, and once again could avoid talking about finances. Will she go there?

Seems very likely she will be addressing this tomorrow, yes. I think she practising the word "unfortunate" today in front of the mirror, checking the angles of where the smoke needs to be.

 

[Lady Rosalie]

My 2 cents on D&A's relationship kaboom ....

1) There are actually statistic out there that say that marital (relational) satisfaction takes a huge nose dive when you have children. Much as those little people are cute and you love them they absolutely change you as people (I think especially mothers), and the relationship dynamic has to take a huge switch. Having children really changes a lot of us women, and a lot of our men don't like the change. And then there is how to figure out the care load of children and home. A lot of relationships don't survive the changes needed.

2) Dan might want all the comments on his vlog to stay kind for his boys to read in the future ... HOWEVER ... those boys will have eyes, and they can watch all the vlogs they and both of their parents are on, and they can see what we've seen. They will see the way their dad treated their mother during the kitchen reno at their house. How he pushed his agenda on design, how when they went shopping he wouldn't even let her buy a simple plant. They will see Annalise talk to Dan in stores and at home, and he completely ignores her. They will see that. AND I half wonder if Annalise got a different view on it watching it on video, and seeing people comment on it.

3) Dan's shift to his daily vlogs and all the pushing to do renos for content ... me thinks that Annalise saw less and less of him and had less and less support and became a vlogger's widow. Dan seemed to become obsessed with vlogging lots. And he became more and more cocky in his vlogs. I'm just guessing, but I bet this created a lot of tension. A woman doesn't want her man so busy all the time and so focused on a hobby or making an income, or even a reno, that you don't have time for decent family life and couple time.

4) I think all the above things came to a head, I think Dan got to the end of his rope and found sympathy in the La lande crowd. And I think he just stopped wanting to put effort into his relationship with Annalise. So he moved out, over to La lande, the cesspool that it is. He had lots of friends over there. And I personally think they were all friends at that stage. But, they welcome him in and instead of encouraging him to go home and work it out and think that he may need to change some patterns, they likely did the opposite.

5) Annalise does not look happy in the car when he asked if she wanted to come in for coffee. She is trying and he's got the damn camera on her, so what can she say .... I don't think she sees la lande as a place of support for her. I think that she's hurt because HE left and moved out and didn't stay and work things out.

6) She looked happy cutting his hair ... because frankly, she knows that hair cut makes him look like a cartoon ... so if other women want to bed him looking ridiculous, well .... she also knows she can take those sheers and have a big oops and make him bald!

7) I'm not convinced there was another woman prior to moving into La Lande in September .... maybe ... has there been since he moved in? maybe .... but I can tell you, if I was Annalise, I would NOT enter that building if there was something going on. I can't imagine having my ex in vlogs hanging out with other women the way he has. But then I think she is a much nicer person than I am.

8) And I do think it is karma that his van his broken down! LOL ... other than that it now means more driving for Annalise ... but for him I'm laughing about it.

* thought now off my chest *

 

[Clara Burnett]

Anyone ready jump to Annalise's defence or is it ok for her to continue to feed at the Lalande trough? Don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with it but what's sauce for the goose and all that.

To no-one's surprise I would strongly advice Annalise to never go there again if it's true joy and friendship she's seeking. That poisonous b**ch is better left with the biggest root problem imaginable and is only going to rub salt in her wounds...

 

[Clara Burnett]

There isn’t a genuine drop of empathy in Stephanfraudies body. When you think she couldn’t stoop any lower to exploit a person or situation to falsely glorify herself, she gets a shovel and starts digging a deeper hole. The 50% discount chatelaine sits on a throne of lies, manipulation, and delusions of grandeur.

We all know this to be true, yet hearing the charlataine Stephanie Jarvis, who only owns half of the dump she likes to refer to as chateau de LaLande but can't even afford to pay for its maintenance let alone it restoration or renovation so she turned herself into a charity case and begged money from total strangers (more than 30000 euros each month for years and years), say she donated a single 2000 euro (of her OWN money ffs, she has none) for Ukraine's relief her viciousness is just beyond imaginable. If praise was earned it would be a valuable asset, but this just proofs the cult status she has achieved for herself as their leader. Their praise means nothing but an affirmation of a world gone completely mad.

 

[Clara Burnett]

I feel like she’s tight with the handy and gorgeous cousin she won’t be going anywhere soon unless they break up

She has become a huge liability now, even more because her true nature has become common knowledge an people will start to look at her differently. She might not go straight away, but her position has taken a huge blow. Her apartment too: it won't be ready any time soon...

 

[Violetlovespink]

I'm new here. I had a massive run in with SJ patreons over saying i felt a bit duped yesterday. Needless to say i was attacked big time including SJ
I feel horrible they were so nasty. Anyhoo Ive deleted it all. And just need to be away from it.

thanks everyone,I am reeling at the minute, but I keep telling myself everything that is happening is taking me to where I want to go. Even if its been horrible, I did hold my ground though, but they hugely ganged up on me. Its really left me pondering on the state of the world and how it has come to this where we are not allowed to have a different opinion than the main narrative, obviously we are seeing it everywhere not just CD patreon account. What shocks me also is how they can be so horrified at my suggestion of feeling duped and i was really polite , but they still attacked like a pack of dogs it was actually quite weird. I would paste it all here but i've closed everything down and frankly I never want to go back , the only thing that bugs me is they think they have won and that makes me mad it reminded me of girls bullying at school do you remember that, I do. And finally I have been hoovering frantically my house with the song "i am going to wash that bunch right out of my hair". I feel psychically attacked need to sweep my house and get rid of it all. I was thinking that if SJ was genuine as she portrays she would gave called her pack dogs off me and said we are all entitled to our opinion. But no I bet she is gloating. Its all so sad. What has the world come to?

 

[Lady Avonlea]

Thanks for your explanation. Yes, probably many saw them as poor needy people

Absolutely at the beginning Fanny portrayed the situation as them being ‘poor’ and ‘poor me’ - the old jag, a broken down 10 year old car, making her own drapes, a barren garden and destitute green house, numerous unusable barns and attic filled with junk because poor Mummy and me aren’t physically able to move and it’s all too much to handle since Daddy died, couldn’t afford a plane ticket to visit Mummee in S/A, silly me was duped into draining the lake, living all alone here most of the time since Daddy died, fountain doesn’t work, only get by with the help of volunteers.....and more false narratives, all gave the impression she was a damsel in distress who needed help and a girl with a dream who needed money.

 

[Le Baiseur]

Manor & Maker can't be bothered to edit YT comments. It makes for fun reading. Could SJ be the "Champagne Socialist"?

valerie thompson
1 day ago
Am I reading this right? You have volunteers to work for free whilst you go on your holidays?!

J G
2 days ago
How refreshing to find a channel who is not on here begging for money through patronage or 'buy me a coffee' schemes, but are advertising for donations to UNHCR although I do feel you need to put a proper link. I am sick to death of these champagne socialists on here who own half of France and ask the poor and the vulnerable to pay for their privileged lifestyles. Sickening during Wartimes.

Melanie Schneider
2 days ago
I am sorry, that party looks like the most boring party ever… no music, no food, no nothing. What was the point of going to Venice?

 

[sues900]

I’m more of a lurker and don’t comment often, Venice was the final straw for me, they are all just ridiculous.

A lot of things make sense now, Annalise’s visit to the UK on her own, her appearing less than her bubbly self and not being able to shake off her cold, to be honest I have huge admiration for her, filming vlogs for her Patreons whilst dealing with a crumbling home life must have been very difficult for her.

Unfortunately that dump isn’t worth anything so the option to sell up and move back to the UK just isn’t there, she would end up in a bed and breakfast until the council found her something, he’s the bread winner so for now she is financially dependent on him.

I do think he has had his head turned by YouTube and lalaland, he’s got money to buy goodies for himself, he’s partying and having a lovely time without his family, yes he works hard and what appeared to be working hard for a better life for the family has now turned into massaging his ego and getting income to fund his new life, I also Danfended on here but no more he’s turned out to be as self serving and vane as the rest of them.

I do feel for Annalise as that stand up guy she met and started this exciting new life in France with just isn’t that same man anymore, it’s just all very sad.

 

[Patriciarella]

Sillymar Nooooooo! You can’t tell people the truth, at least not in English. I can’t unsee your belly button and I thought watching you tango was bad. This is a step too far! So you say you can buy a castle but can’t buy a shirt that fits?

Yes SJ I have buried the accountant’s figures just like you asked me. Right beside the paperwork that proves it was your fault the lake got drained and left of the woodland watch camera. No one knows but US my love!

Of coarse I can act innocent I am a famous actor! Yes people believe you are an opera singer, Gerry is a friend of the family and you are not still making out with Potty. Yes, of coarse we can convince Patrons that Tatti is behind all of this trouble. Yes, we can say she broke up Matt and Dan’s marriages that is why Natti yelled at her. They will believe us, they still think I like girls don’t they?

 

[misspotter]

M Parker Hey, before we get started watching, I've had an idea kicking around in my head for months and I thought I'd present it today:
Jenny Willow @M Parker Now you've got me intrigued
M Parker what do you think of a Natie Appreciation Month?? Where those of us who want to shower her with cards and those who can afford with little gifts, and we send them throughout the month we choose?
M Parker As a thank you for all her hard work for keeping this channel sorted etc
M Parker It wouldn't be cards and gifts to open on Cadeaux, but just for her personally. Could arrive anytime throughout the month
M Parker Oh, good, I'm glad you guys like the idea! I just think she would be so surprised and touched
Diana Elizabeth Bashford @M Parker sounds like a great idea and I make cards
Brenda M @M Parker that is a fabulous idea Natie is the powerhouse behind Lalande

before starting the Nati Appreciation Month they may wish to view Selmar’s latest Patreon vlog.

 

[Rory]

Dan commented in a vlog Annaleise’s job is for one term only. It is not full time. She will be finished by the summer.

Escape to Rural France lost 42 patreons (11%) last month. Signing up 30 is still a shortfall. Perhaps the patreon drop was the catalyst to go public. I do think comments in Tattler, patreon and vlogs were also contributing.

Maybe if Dan didn’t go to Venice on holiday (as he stated. It was not work) get a tattoo, buy more equipment, more Raybans he would have money to fix the van. So now Annaleise has to drive over 20 mins (probably in opposite direction) to pick him up.

So now he starts fixing leaks in the home of his children. After Venice holiday, tattoo, equipment buying, London, rayban glasses, etc