The fact that Tan goes into so much effort to post her fake pub meals or other fake away meals shows she is so desperate for attention.. it just shows how sad her little life is. She literally has no life - her life is all about posting pics on an app and getting validation from strangers. That is her life. What a waste.. and how sad - she has no friends, no one who she zooms with, no one she meets up with for walks or exercise. Her whole existence is about food & smothering her boyfriend who let’s face it is NEVER going to marry her.. she has no one in her life - a partner who clearly just puts up with her, daughters who don’t want to be around her, a son she doesn’t give a tit about and parents who are out of sight out of mind. Most people have at least a handful of friends but she it doesn’t look like she does. That says so much about the type of person she is. She is probably so horrible in person that no one wants to be around her. Everyone sees her as selfish & desperate. It must be very lonely in her world but she’s such a narcissist she just plays the victim. I find it very sad because there is so much happiness out there to be had. It’s true what they say that helping others & having a proper purpose really does bring you happiness.. but she can’t seem to see the world from anyone else’s perspective other than her own. She can’t even do the tiniest thing for someone without thinking about what’s in it for her. Tan, you are so fucked up.. you are such an example of a life I never want to have.. You’ll probably die of obesity or some other fat related illness before you get old but if you do make it to old age, you are going to be very lonely snuggled up with all your Emma Bridgewater. No amount of spending will buy you happiness. See the warning signs now and make changes.