I'm watching their latest Q&A, and it's a red flag after red flag to me. That man...although he's desperately trying to persuade everyone that he's so chill and unbothered because he's mature, I'm not buying it. I'm in my early 40's, and most of my male friends are of the same age. What he believes to be "mature" is in reality egoistic, insensitive and uncultured.
That episode with Tamara being afraid of height and being left behind by him on that bridge, and the way he reacted to her upset is really telling. Not a single caring bone in his body. You do not say "we do not have to stay together" and dismiss your partner's emotional response like that, especially, when she communicated clearly what her upset was about. I wonder how he imagines himself as a father? Kids are often upset and throuw tantrums with no obvious reason. Is he going to say "we do not have to stay together" to them too?
And then how many more times he needs to repeat that he wasn't smitten by her in the beginning? Man, have some respect for the woman right besides you #facepalm.
Tamara seems really insecure and submissive with him.