Tamara Kalinic #17 She has a ring, but she’s hauling all the bling!

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If you want to INVEST in designer bags, you shouldn't buy those temporary models. And yes, some brands have bags who are just ugly as hell. Romina Rose May bought herself several Bottega Veneta bags which no one wants to be seen in in 3 years time. I really think that's their shop addiction speaking, it doesn't matter anymore if it's beautiful or ugly, just buy and feel the thrill.
 
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Is it just me or did everyone notice how she seems so afraid to say what are her bad purchases.

She is all “its not the product, its me”. Not the ugly, overpriced bag, I am the problem as my taste is so minimalistic and special but the bag is beautiful, you should buy it, there is a link… (sorry, got caught up 😂)
Not only that, she said she "gave away" or "passed on" a lot of things that she bought but didn't keep. What she really meant was returned 🥴
 
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Hmm the new blue weird Kelly i don’t know about it, and her best and worst, why does she keep expensive things she doesn’t like or will never wear.. sell it let someone else use it. Buying and not using is a crime on all these products.
 
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So what is her endgame? If it’s not to value her collection and each purchase means nothing to her as soon as she gets it, what is her goal?
I'm interested in that' too. Because, she's not buying to build a collection. Because - she doesn't care for the things - doesn't cherish them. They are just symbol of her hard earned money? So, when you put white blazer with shoes in a suitcase, you just don't care.
And even when she speaks of something she bought it is always with a pinch of being full of herself. You can never sense that she really wanted to have the item for the sake of the item - I really wanted this bag - throws it on the ground and starts talking abut the next one. hahahha
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I would like to see her pairing her alaia flats with khaite jeans.

Alaia flats she had to have, but never liked them hahaha.
 
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Is it just me or did everyone notice how she seems so afraid to say what are her bad purchases.

She is all “its not the product, its me”. Not the ugly, overpriced bag, I am the problem as my taste is so minimalistic and special but the bag is beautiful, you should buy it, there is a link… (sorry, got caught up 😂)
I don't trust any of her best/worst/favourite/most worn videos at all. She said she filmed three of them in one go before her departure for Dubai. So, imo, no thought has been put into any. These videos are part of a brand deal. I believe they are meant to give brands an extra exposure, and it does not really matter, what she thinks of an item.
 
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Not only that, she said she "gave away" or "passed on" a lot of things that she bought but didn't keep. What she really meant was returned 🥴
You can donate stuff to a charity and use the donated value as a tax refund. Just as Tamara and a lot of other bloggers do.
 
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I think it’s normal to lose interest in luxury goods when you can afford them with no trouble . Rich people easily lose their sense of reality. I’m not trying to defend Tetka but most influencers don’t enjoy luxury stuff like normal consumers like us would. They have received too many PR packages and coupons and credits .. Those clothes, shoes , bags are not had earned . Their job is overpaid and comes with a lot freebies.
People often call out Chiara for keeping her 30k bags on each other in a messy wardrobe . She simply doesn’t care. It’s just stuff to her .
Tetka was so excited when she got her Celine bag . (Who remembers those times? ) 100 bags later she can’t be as excited as she was when she purchased her first one. Same applies to Hermes. She was so happy with her first purchase . I don’t see how she can be excited about her 5th Kelly bag.. at the end of the day it’s the same bag just in another color. You can’t like them all equally .
 
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I think it’s normal to lose interest in luxury goods when you can afford them with no trouble . Rich people easily lose their sense of reality. I’m not trying to defend Tetka but most influencers don’t enjoy luxury stuff like normal consumers like us would. They have received too many PR packages and coupons and credits .. Those clothes, shoes , bags are not had earned . Their job is overpaid and comes with a lot freebies.
People often call out Chiara for keeping her 30k bags on each other in a messy wardrobe . She simply doesn’t care. It’s just stuff to her .
Tetka was so excited when she got her Celine bag . (Who remembers those times? ) 100 bags later she can’t be as excited as she was when she purchased her first one. Same applies to Hermes. She was so happy with her first purchase . I don’t see how she can be excited about her 5th Kelly bag.. at the end of the day it’s the same bag just in another color. You can’t like them all equally .
You are exactly right! It's not just the quantity it's also the frequency with which these bags arrive. If every week you are unboxing two luxury bags, there's only so much time you can be excited about them. The problem is though, that's her job. To be excited about luxury items so she can convince her audience to buy them. That's why all these brands send her these items. Some influencers often get to the point where they think these are just gifts for them, no strings attached, when in fact they most certainly are not. The brand sends the items to them to advertise, whether is a paid ad or just "kindly supplied" :D If you open something, look unimpressed because you have so many even if you call it "insane!", and then chuck it in the back to unbox the next bag, who is going to be convinced to spend their hard-earned money for it, especially when they see you getting it for free and not appreciating it?
 
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Her goal is for people to be jealous of her for having all of these things because she was the “refugee” girl with a back brace and had a pretty sister. Her end goal is… I don’t even think she knows. She’s so focused on being the famous pretty girl that proves her “bullies” wrong that she has no idea she butchered herself and doesn’t have an enviable life.
 
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Her goal is for people to be jealous of her for having all of these things because she was the “refugee” girl with a back brace and had a pretty sister. Her end goal is… I don’t even think she knows. She’s so focused on being the famous pretty girl that proves her “bullies” wrong that she has no idea she butchered herself and doesn’t have an enviable life.
I can't wrap my head around ever wanting others to be jealous. Sad existence for anyone living this way. I suppose I'm envious of others who have 'the slow life' & truly appreciate things around them, things as in nature, not materialistic rubbish. (I love a great bag or shoe, but to make it one's main focus in life, will leave you feeling empty). imo
 
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Her goal is for people to be jealous of her for having all of these things because she was the “refugee” girl with a back brace and had a pretty sister. Her end goal is… I don’t even think she knows. She’s so focused on being the famous pretty girl that proves her “bullies” wrong that she has no idea she butchered herself and doesn’t have an enviable life.
I agree with this. When she was around 15-16 and a bit older she used to write a blog, as well as her former BFF at the time (actually that's how they met). I never read it but years later when they both became "famous" snippets from those blogs reappeared (they both deleted it in the meanwhile) and I read some of it using wayback machine. It was so obvious it was them. When Tamara realized people were digging that thing up, she made sure you could not reach it not even using Wayback machine. At that time they were both only popular because of their new blogs and just started with YT. They only had local followers.
From what I remember, reading those bits and pieces. ED TW! She was pro-ana and bulimic, she wanted to be stick thin. She was so obsessed with Blair Waldorf and her lifestyle that she wrote statements in which she swore she'll step over dead bodies to become popular and rich and have all those pretty things so that everyone would envy her. Designer things were the only thing she wanted.
Now, she was a kid when she wrote all those things and most of us grow up and change and mature, but sadly, I think that she is still stuck in that frame of mind.
 
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Her goal is for people to be jealous of her for having all of these things because she was the “refugee” girl with a back brace and had a pretty sister. Her end goal is… I don’t even think she knows. She’s so focused on being the famous pretty girl that proves her “bullies” wrong that she has no idea she butchered herself and doesn’t have an enviable life.
this. yes.
therapy would help but NOOOO she visits life coach instead.:rolleyes:
 
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My gut feeling says she has some sort of personality disorder, something out of cluster B I guess. Make the math.
my theory is adhd with asd mixed in, it would explain her affinity with her BFF adehader, her mood switches, her masking (that's why you didn't know she had a mood all over the place) her uncertainty with who she actually is (sprinkle in some personal trauma, cultural trauma ... it would also explain her eating disorders and many many other things
even if she presents as borderline (possibly) for many it would be female narc (look up the correlation/misdiagnosing) to me it is adhader with a lot of unresolved trauma (which often times translates into histrionic/borderline, her would be toned down by asd

Tamara I know you read here, so look into it and find a specialist who know how to deal with trauma in adhders/asd otherwise they wont be helpful to you, they would misdiagnose you with borderline and stuff you with pills
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Borderline is also a possibility, with her mood swings all over the place
the newest theory is that borderline is basically female narc
even never theory is that it is an undiagnosed adehader female with a ton of unresolved trauma
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If you want to INVEST in designer bags, you shouldn't buy those temporary models. And yes, some brands have bags who are just ugly as hell. Romina Rose May bought herself several Bottega Veneta bags which no one wants to be seen in in 3 years time. I really think that's their shop addiction speaking, it doesn't matter anymore if it's beautiful or ugly, just buy and feel the thrill.
but Romina is austrian with possible hungarian roots or even further so dont mind her kitch style, but at least it is her own [style] not her boyfirends
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my theory is adhd with asd mixed in, it would explain her affinity with her BFF adehader, her mood switches, her masking (that's why you didn't know she had a mood all over the place) her uncertainty with who she actually is (sprinkle in some personal trauma, cultural trauma ... it would also explain her eating disorders and many many other things
even if she presents as borderline (possibly) for many it would be female narc (look up the correlation/misdiagnosing) to me it is adhader with a lot of unresolved trauma (which often times translates into histrionic/borderline, her would be toned down by asd

Tamara I know you read here, so look into it and find a specialist who know how to deal with trauma in adhders/asd otherwise they wont be helpful to you, they would misdiagnose you with borderline and stuff you with pills
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the newest theory is that borderline is basically female narc
even never theory is that it is an undiagnosed adehader female with a ton of unresolved trauma
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but Romina is austrian with possible hungarian roots or even further so dont mind her kitch style, but at least it is her own [style] not her boyfirends
before you come for me, the above it is just a theory, I would have to see her interact in the real-world settings (not just what she is pushing on us ..) but i dont think i am too far away, at least it can be a starting point
 
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This is all I could find, she scrubbed everything off the Internet. https://hi5.com/cosmo4girl
She used the handle cosmo4girl for the old blog and various sites and later even on Reddit a few years ago when she was pushing the narrative that she is dating Hector Bellerin. And oh, look at post #2, she is looking for a seller on DHgate for Chanel sand bag :D
 
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“This isn’t me but___” *posts pictures of herself on a replica sub in hopes for compliments*

Shocking childish behaviour in her cosmo4girl Reddit history- plugged herself and SoShady :ROFLMAO:Doesn’t she have a photo album account with coastal girl as a handle too? Crazy how she loved Gossip Girl and her frenemy Xenia used to call herself Xenia Van der Woodsen. She even talks about gossip girl on her Reddit account. Embarrassing.
 
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“This isn’t me but___” *posts pictures of herself on a replica sub in hopes for compliments*

Shocking childish behaviour in her cosmo4girl Reddit history- plugged herself and SoShady :ROFLMAO:Doesn’t she have a photo album account with coastal girl as a handle too? Crazy how she loved Gossip Girl and her frenemy Xenia used to call herself Xenia Van der Woodsen. She even talks about gossip girl on her Reddit account. Embarrassing.
Yes, I forgot that! She used the coastal girl handle as well. :D And the shameless SoShady plug :D Those posts are around 4 years old, she was what, 30 at the time? I think it was right before FT, like, very close to it. Obviously, she is obsessed with football players (and always was).
Not only Xenia, but her former BFF Zorannah was also Serena to her Blair. On her blog she also described how she was mean to some girls, basically for no reason. She was also writing about her 18th birthday party and how it's going to be the most amazing party ever but in a way that everyone will be envious of her because she rented a hotel or something like that for the party. It wasn't about the simple enjoyment and being happy her friends were there but all about her being the center of attention, how the girls would envy her, and how some guy she liked would be amazed.
Now, all of us were young and silly to some degree but in her case, I don't have the impression she ever moved away from that.
 
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I TINK dis was the period when she started using...stuff...
that breakfast was epic :ROFLMAO:
 
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I TINK she's high as a kite in that one :D

Is THAT the famous couch? :D She was talking about how she got the new covers/new pillows and then when we checked the pictures of the apartment online we could see that the couch already came with two sets of pillows/covers. I forgot all about it 😂
 
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my theory is adhd with asd mixed in, it would explain her affinity with her BFF adehader, her mood switches, her masking (that's why you didn't know she had a mood all over the place) her uncertainty with who she actually is (sprinkle in some personal trauma, cultural trauma ... it would also explain her eating disorders and many many other things
even if she presents as borderline (possibly) for many it would be female narc (look up the correlation/misdiagnosing) to me it is adhader with a lot of unresolved trauma (which often times translates into histrionic/borderline, her would be toned down by asd

Tamara I know you read here, so look into it and find a specialist who know how to deal with trauma in adhders/asd otherwise they wont be helpful to you, they would misdiagnose you with borderline and stuff you with pills
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the newest theory is that borderline is basically female narc
even never theory is that it is an undiagnosed adehader female with a ton of unresolved trauma
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but Romina is austrian with possible hungarian roots or even further so dont mind her kitch style, but at least it is her own [style] not her boyfirends
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before you come for me, the above it is just a theory, I would have to see her interact in the real-world settings (not just what she is pushing on us ..) but i dont think i am too far away, at least it can be a starting point
You are right about the trauma, she has CPTSD, probably from her childhood/ upbringing. That's why she has distanced herself from her family, she tries to bring a facade into her vlogs pretending everything is cool between her and her family.
 
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