How would she go to the gym or the botox salon if she has to parent full time? She just doesn't want to look after him, she wants free time when she hasn't got the other 2 boys!She’s certainly not wanting her son home without help. I don’t get though, if the boys are with Aaron and she only has Siennah, why does she need a carer for 12 hours a day? Surely she should be able to focus on Oakley? Then she can focus on the boys whilst Aaron has Oakley. Surely if she’s only got Oakley and Siennah to focus on, why does she need a carer?