Welcome to Aaron Chalmers and Talia Oatway’s wiki, still a work in progress but here is a general overview so far:
Aaron Chalmers (born 26 May 1987) is an English retired mixed martial artist, reality television personality, and professional boxer. He appeared in the reality shows Geordie Shore and Ex on the Beach. He also competed in Bellator MMA. He started dating Talia Oatway in 2017 and have had an on/off relationship until 2022, they have 3 children together - Romeo, Maddox and Oakley.
Talia Oatway is an Instagram influencer known as the ex girlfriend of Aaron Chalmers. She is the daughter of ex footballer Charlie Oatway (His full name is - Anthony Philip David Terry Frank Donald Stanley Gerry Gordon Stephen James Oatway) She moved up north with her daughter Siennah when she met Aaron and has been living there ever since.
Talia and Aaron broke up not long after the birth of their last born son, Oakley, and it has been a bitter battle of Instagram stories, comments and digs ever since, there is currently going to be a hearing at the end of May 2023 over their parenting disputes. 26/05 On the court date Aaron posted with a birthday card in the RVI and Talia did a tip run and went to Yo Sushi. Aaron replied to a tattler to say court was postponed. There is no other confirmation but Talia still continues to post the kids.
Nicknames for Talia
Takia, T, Scummy Mummy, Spaceraider, Jodie.
-Talia gets called Jodie because there was a recent news article (May 2023) that referred to Talia as Aaron’s ex, Jodie. Obviously us tattlers found this hilarious and Talia now gets referred to as Jodie.
Nicknames for Aaron
Some people
Talias amazing vocabulary
(You may see us misspelling words, yes this is on purpose due to Talia thinking she knows it all yet cannot spell the simplest of words, or name Oakleys medical equipment correctly.)
- Cleaver, instead of ‘Clever’
- Hydroquarterzone, instead of ‘Hydrocortisone’ (the skin cream)
- Wofting oxygen, instead of ‘wafting oxygen’
- STATS machine, instead of ‘SATS machine’
- No, instead of ‘Know’
- Continent, instead of ‘Consonant’
- Board instead of ‘bored’
- Bored instead of ‘board’
- Breaks instead of ‘brakes’
- Gavipentin instead of ‘Gabapentin’
- New instead of ‘knew’
Oakley’s medical condition
(Not in chronological order)
Oakley has a condition called ‘Aperts Syndrome’ it is a genetic disorder that causes fusion of the skull, hands, and feet bones. It is characterized by deformities of the skull, face, teeth, and limbs. Apert syndrome occurs in one out of every 65,000 to 88,000 births. And no, it was not caused by Aaron’s drinking/drug use. We will not tolerate any new tattlers joining and trolling Oakley, he is an absolutely gorgeous little boy just like his brothers and he is not defined by his medical condition, we all absolutely adore him here. We also do not tolerate any screenshots of him or his brothers being shared on the thread as Aaron does not want the boys shown on social media. There is speculation that Talia knew of Oakleys syndrome and decided to keep it from Aaron, although she vehemently denies these claims.
Talia did post ultrasound photos of Oakley, however when it was questioned about his hand appearing to be fused and the signs of Aperts, Talia deleted these photos from her instagram.
Oakley is currently in his own room in the RVI however neither parent stay over night and Talia leads her follower’s to believe she cannot stay as he is on the long term ventilation bay. This is not true since at least the 9th of May.
Talia chose to cover Oakley’s face and said it was for his own privacy. She stretched this even further and covered him up with a muslin or the pram hood in public. Someone asked her on a Q&A how she manages to cover him in public, she proudly showed off her pram and the extendable hood. Despite this she shared many parts of his personal medical history and drip fed body parts that she thought were aesthetically pleasing to instagram. Talia did not want to engage in phsyio therapy for Oakley as she did not want lot’s of people in her house. She was then upset when she was told his development was behind where it should be for an Apert baby. Talia on numerous occasions was seen ignoring sats alarms, he was admitted every time his community nurse saw him. Talia also filmed Oakley not being able to breath properly and decided it was best to wait hours for an ambulance instead of taking him straight to a&e. She regularly describes Oakley’s hospital appointments as ‘a fucking joke.’ Talia complains that she does not have time for her self, does it all alone and could not get him to the hospital quickly due to having 3 other kids. Despite this she attends PT session, nights out, late night car rides with no children, beauty appointments and many more. Talia has been caught out lying on numerous occasions that she has her kids when she does not.
Before his major surgery she took the opportunity to have a photo shoot covering Oakley’s face outside of the ambulance. Whilst oakley had his surgery in Alder Hey, she was staying most nights at two different gifted hotels and would arrive to the hospital in the afternoon after taking OOTD in the lift hotel. The hotels were 30 minutes away despite being eligible for hospital accommodation. You could also see her shopping bags on the hotel bed. Whilst Oakley was fasting for surgery she took her self of out for a meal as it was too distressing to stay. His operation was treat as a family gathering, her dad stayed over night and her step mum and little sister also hung about.
When Talia visits the children wards she is seen dressing in minimal clothing and does not miss the opportunity to take a selfie in the lift wearing no bra. She says she does not find this inappropriate as she didn’t get a boob job to wear a bra.
Most recently Oakley’s sats were in the 70’s which she announced on Instagram casually. Since this Oakley has not returned home from hospital. Talia is allowing ‘friends’ (that she never mentioned before) stay with Oakley in hospital as well as bathing him and visiting him. Talia claims Aaron does not see Oakley despite being evidence of him attending the hospital and another parent who has a child on the same ward commenting on instagram that Aaron is there more than Talia lets on. She would not be the first person to see him there. Since Oakley has not been home the instagram arguments, digs and custody battles have gotten worse. Talia said he was on the bay meaning no one can stay over night, however both of their instagrams show he has a private room meaning one parent can stay over night. Aaron has been seen to stay over more however it seems Oakley is being left alone most nights. (Thread 32 for receipts)
Talia believes she shouldn’t have to do much caring medically for Oakley as she chose to be a Mum not a nurse, contradictory to this she calls her self medical mummy.
Aaron made a story alluding to the fact that Talia hides their son because she is embarrassed of his appearance. Talia stuck to the story that she was traumatised by it all and not ready to share. 24 hours after Aaron made that story Talia had posted Oakley on her instagram. This resulted in 1000’s of reshares. Aaron then pointed out she recovered from her trauma very quickly. She then posted a multitude of AD’s in the coming days after gaining high engagement for sharing Oakley.
Talia leaves her kids to roam free whilst she has a bath. They can be heard shouting in the back ground or she shouts of them and they reply clearly from a different room. She leaves her 9 year old in charge of a 3yr old, 2yr old and a disabled baby whilst she baths. Siennah writ this note for the nurses which confirms Talia is leaving Siennah in charge of a baby who she describes her self as severely complex and cannot be looked after by 1 adult alone.
Talia deletes any negative comments instantly so that her instagram looks like she gets a lot of support. More people are opening her eyes to this to see she is highly manipulative. She has been antagonising Aaron for months until he snapped, once Aaron snapped she instantly posted a story that Aaron is abusive. Despite her claiming Aaron is abusive she continues to send her children there and still antagonises him on her stories.
Talia posts stories every day of her kids in the bath to her strange followers..
Talia was very vocal in how hard her life was doing it all alone. Once again she took to instagram, this time she told everyone she’s been getting skin boosters and paid a deposit for her boobs done. This was whilst oakley was in hospital and she still claimed no one helped her
Talia had new photos printed for her wall, she included all 4 kids however she cropped Oakleys face in her own home. She still claims she never covered him due to embarrassment however she still hid him in his own home
Aaron said on his story that he offered to have the boys whilst Siennah was away with a friend. Aaron stated Talia said no to this out of spite that it wasn’t his day to have the boys. Aaron could not stay as he had caught a bug from the boys. Talia did not seem ti have the same bug and carried on business as usual.
Aaron went for a meal whilst having said bug and thought it was funny that he still had V&D but was still going to go to a public place anyway. He said he turned back as he was still shitting him self however it is not clear if that was true or was posted after receiving back lash on tattle.
Talia said “I’ll get the boys back in the morning” and “any medical mum needs to get those breaks in for their mental health everyone will know you just need to step outside the hospital and forget things for a bit. That’s what I do at my pt” Talia then made is clearly Oakley was back on Oxygen. Instead of staying at the hospital with him whilst she was child free she went to her PT session and posted a series of pictures posing for ad’s and completing a PT session. Talia uses her stories to insinuate that Aaron does not see Oakley whilst in hospital and encourages followers to send him abuse about this. It could be said that Talia also is not present enough. Her normal excuse is that she has other kids however here is the perfect example that even with out the children she choses to do things for her self.
Talia posted a picture in the hospital that Tattlers believe they have saw before. Her lips look smaller and her eye brows are darker. Her hair was curly all day and suddenly straight. The picture also looks like a private room meaning it is either old or he is back in his private room and she is choosing not to stay over night despite not having the boys and being able to get a baby sitter for Siennah regularly for nights out. This is another example of Talia misleading her followers. Oakley appears to be doing the best he ever has, yet he still remains ‘living in hospital’. Talia has mentioned she has ‘meetings’ in regards to his care needs at home. Talia was upset as she needed to attend these meetings but Aaron was with holding the kids. (She did take a photo on the Quayside but never mentioned the emergency court again, the kids were back in her care the next day) A tattler confirmed there is social services involved, it is speculated that social services do not think it is safe for Oakley to be at home. Talia has posted a journal made by the nurses for Oakley and a Tattler with experience of social services and a family member who went through the same thing believes they are the type of journals social services require for foster placements and the child to look back on.
It is believed in 2018 Marnie and Aaron slept together whilst both in relationships.
Talia advertises for MAM. She actually uses Dr Brown products. She covers up the logo of Dr Brown bottles as it goes against her grid posts when she promotes MAM.
Talia said Maddox had thrown up a few times on Thursday night. On Friday morning she took him to visit Oakley in hospital.
Talia posing in the lift of a sick childrens hospital along side a emoji
Talia allowes Siennah to have unsupervised acsess to Tiktok. Often using inappropriate #’s such as ‘i am 12 not 9’ she creates new accounts when one is removed.
She has not addressed where her children are at 10pm but posted in Miller and Carter. She still continues the narrative that she does not get a break but it prioritising her night off over staying with Oakley. She uses the excuse that she can’t stay as she has 3 other kids however manages a baby sitter at a drop of a hat
The night before the alleged court case Aaron asked for evidence of Talia driving. Aaron received evidence and followed it by two more stories.
Talia admitted she had not been up the hospital whilst Oakley had his metal work changed. She stated they rang her and sent her pictures to update on him.
Talia has never mentioned sciatica before which is unusual for her. She says she has been getting hip and leg pain for a long time. she posts jumping on pogo sticks, thrusting in the gym, playing football, and playing on kids climbing frames this would tell you it’s all lies . Talia came to instagram to say she has been prescribed gabapentin but doesn’t take it because it makes her drowsy. She asked for a Q&A for different treatment. If she was taking the medication that means she was driving with the kids whilst drowsy. It is speculated that this medication is being brought up in court and now she is attempting to cover her self.
Talia tells instagram that she leaves the boys 3&2 alone on the top floor in her bed watching a film whilst she has a bath. Talias face and mood changes to angry and vicious when one of the boys chucks their toy in her bath. This is a regular occurrence
Talia last saw Oakley on the 24th of May. She posted that a friend saw him on the 29th of May and she saw Oakley again on the 30th of May. Talia went 6 days without visiting the hospital. In this time she spent it round her friends sunbathing in the garden and at South Shields with the other boys.
Aaron saw Oakley on the 26th of May and posted with a Birthday card by his cot. He then celebrated his birthday with drinks in Edinburgh, leaving neither parent seeing Oakley.
Talia posted a reel about Oakley. She was never scared for his breathing she sprayed hair spray all over him, videod him whilst he struggled, eye fucked her self whilst ignoring his monitors, let his sats sit at 70’s, waited hours for an ambulance instead of taking him to a&e and repeatedly said for fuck sake when ever he had to go back in. Every hospital admission was on a Friday when his community nurse admitted him.
Aaron posting transphobic things on instagram despite allegedly paying for a trans womans only fans
Talia barely knows Charlotte Trippier but is allowing her to visit Oakley despite having child care for her other children.
Aaron got a wonky moustache to match his wonky nose
Oakley is in Alder Hey. Talia is there with her Dad and Siennah. It is believed she is staying in a hotel and the Boys are with Aaron. Talia once again made it about her self and how tired she is.
Aaron posted on his story the day after the surgery
RECEIPTS PAGE 26 THREAD #38 The day after surgery both of them took to their instagram stories. Aaron says court order 12 days him and 16 days Talia. If he hasn’t got the boys he is up the hospital. Sometimes Talia has them more sometimes Aaron has them more. Aaron says they have been working together. Aaron says anyone who has anything to say is a single mother and their BD left them.
Talia says it is all lies, she doesn’t post old pics, she won’t stand for erratic behaviour. She has had hell the last few days. She said the abusive and erratic behaviour got proven. As well as taking Siennah to Alder hey, she also took Siennah’s friend.
It was believed Aaron was in Talia’s home 03/08/23 due to the back ground noise in his story and the sofa. On the 4/08/2023 he posted these stories. It is believed they were aimed at Talia. He also told everyone he would never post his kids again and wanted them off social media, but then posted Oakley calling him the ‘most handsomest’. It is likely this was posted to win the sympathy vote and lead people to believe the video was ‘cute’. Another tattler confirmed Aaron is not at the hospital the amount he states. Aaron also called Jack Finchem a ‘coke head’ despite being a self proclaimed coke head him self. It is most likely that he was pissed/on cocaine when he posted these stories.
thread 40 page 30: Aaron confirms Oakley has a carer who will be looking after him when he comes home. Aaron has had oakley outside without a carer however Talia has not
page 31: Talia’s response to carer
Insider knowledge post about BTS in the RVI
Talia pretended to have an agent posting on her socials when asked why she was posting ads whilst her child was in surgery. It is believed she does this as her engagement is high when oakley is in surgery.
Aaron repeatedly tagging Idris Elba (the famous actor) in his tweets instead of Idris Virgo (his opponent)
Does Aaron have the boys?
Yes Aaron has the boys, he does not post them on social media but they can be heard in the back ground of stories. He has them 4x a week. Aaron takes the boys on days out. He has stated on more than one occasion that he was being stopped from seeing the boys. The general consensus is if he does not do what she likes then he is no longer able to see them. Talia has form for doing this in her previous relationship. For a long time Talia has talked about ‘some people’ meaning Aaron. She tries to allude to the fact Aaron no longer sees the boys and that she has them by her self. This has resulted in more recently Aaron having to prove that he has the boys, he now posts videos stating the time and date when he has them. Before this Aaron kept quiet but still kept to the same story; ‘I do see the boys but I don’t have anything to prove to instagram’ Talia sticks to the same story that he was no where to be seen however she was caught posting old pictures of the boys, going quiet for days and enjoying dates and child free activities. This backs up Aarons story that he was still seeing the kids.
Does Aaron pay for the kids?
Talia states Aaron pays £18 a week per child. It has since came out Aaron is having the kids 4/7 days making their care 50/50 there for CM should be calculated accordingly. Aaron states he used to pay more but Talia was not spending the money on what it should be used for. Aaron also stated he is happy to take the boys shopping to get new clothes. He has shown him self doing this and was also spotted in the metro centre taking the boys for new clothes. Talia states they cannot attend nursery anymore due to Aaron refusing to fund this, they suddenly were attending nursery a week after they ‘couldn’t attend no more’ despite also needing to give notice that they were no longer attending. Whilst Talia ranted about pulling the boys out of nursery and having no money she was also showing off designer engraved lip oils and zara shopping hauls. At the same time as her rant she asked instagram if anyone could source £780 designer shoes.
Housing:
Aaron owns his house, Talia and Siennah moved in. Talia quickly started renovating his home. Aaron states she lived in his house rent free and only paid for food. She remained in his house and not long after Oakley was born she moved into a rented new build. Aaron made a dig that it must be hard living in the real world paying for things. There was a period when Aaron kicked Talia, Siennah and Romeo out, she had to stay on Aarons sisters sofa. She went back to Aarons and quickly announced she was pregnant again. Talia was saw boasting on Instagram that they were moving to a large house in Wynyard and Aarons house was put on the market.
This never materialised. Since the split Aaron has had renovation work and told his instagram story that Talia thought the house was not her standard and was never happy with what she got.
Driving and parking:
Talia has been known to park in disabled spaces using Oakley’s badge whilst he is not with her. One example is going for a meal with friends and then out in Newcastle. She used Oakley’s blue badge to park at Aspers Casino, Stowell Street Newcastle. A tattler asked her about this which she lied and said she had Oakley. This is a lie as she posted that a friend was baby sitting him at home. If her story was true it also means she was drink driving.
Oakley is living in the RVI and does not leave the ward. She continues to park for free in the RVI carpark using his blue badge despite him not being with her.
Phone line to report the misuse of the blue badge: 0191 2787878
As well as parking in disabled spaces Talia can be seen most day’s filming whilst driving. She lacks regard for the Childrens safety not only by the use of the mobile phone whilst driving but also by failing to strap her children into the car seats. Romeo is seen never having the straps on his shoulders and sometimes not strapped in at all.
Talia called a tanker driver a prick for driving at the speed limit and then filmed him whilst driving her own car (thread 10 page 47)
A clip of Talia filming a singing video whilst driving.
thread 18 page 17
In the RVI getting free parking using Oakley’s badge despite being admitted long term
The countdown:
Aaron decided he would do a countdown in hours to expose Talia. (Starts on thread 16/17) this resulted badly and he asked for contact details of Siennahs dad. Talia won on the sympathy vote, many people believed he was black mailing her and couldn’t believe what he was doing to the mother of his child. Right on time Talia black mailed him back, very smugly she reminded him of the time he fraudulently claimed a government covid loan. Talia did however forget to delete her spending spree on designer clothes from instagram at the same time the business ceased trading.. she also turned a blind eye to his fraudulent claim and did nothing until 3 years later when she needed a desperate chance to silence him. Aaron chose not to share at 8pm due to his management, a tattler who knows them says it was actually his mother who talked him out of it. He did however post a photo of him and Talia with emojis. It is believed the photo is Talia with cocaine around her nose.
Dogs:
Aaron and Talia had an outdoor weather proof kennel built for their dogs at Aarons house. The kennels were very small for the size of the dogs. After the split the dogs have been no where to be seen. Neither party have confirmed which is unlike Aaron and Talia. A tattle member who said they know the family, said the female dog Vogue had died after birth complications. Talia’s brother still advertises dogs for sale (KO_bullyss). He still uses Aarons pictures to sell these on his instagram. Aaron and Talia’s page is still public (LVB_bullys) The page was last active in August 2022. Talia’s brother advertised Lenny’s litter in January 2023. Her brother claims on Tiktok (KO_bullys) that Lenny is not for sale. It may be safe to assume Lenny is in the care of Talia’s brother. The pair described the dogs as ‘their first babies’ however have not mention their dogs since the split.
Posts made by Aaron about Talia:
Many people believe Aaron is abusing Talia due to these types of posts. What is important to remember is every one of these posts was made AFTER Talia had started an argument or made a sly dig at Aaron on her story.
02/06: Talia has not made any digs towards Aaron in a long while. Aaron still continues to post about Talia.
Orange:
A tattler asked Aaron to show us he reads here by wearing orange. Aaron posted orange emoji’s and orange trainers. He also liked orange love heart comments on his feed left by tattlers.
Friends and Family:
Aaron has Family who live in Newcastle. Talia’s family do not live in Newcastle. Talia seems to fall out with everyone very quickly. Every ‘friend’ she does have are usually piggy backed off the one friend she seems to have. Tattlers who knew her before Aaron confirmed she was a bully and always falling out with people before him too.
One tattler said Talia moved Siennah’s school due to fall outs with other mums at the school. Another tattler confirmed there was a falling out with Gaz and Emma due to jealousy. She also seems to lack boundaries about her friends relationships. She referred to one of her friends boyfriends as ‘top shagga’ another boyfriend she called her ‘fella’ on tiktok. Usually the friends she mentions come out of no where then they disappear. Many people also thought on Geordie reunion that she was very rude towards Marnie despite Marnie being civil towards her.
Aaron tends to socialise with his family rather than friends. It has been said by tattlers and Aarons family that his family were not allowed to see the boys and it is believed Talia isolated Aaron from his social and family network. Since the break up Aaron seems to be getting support from his family again.
Charlotte Crosby defended Aaron as a dad on a public comment but also liked Talia’s instagram posts. At some point Charlotte has unfollowed Talia however Talia seems to want to get Charlotte on her side.
Holly Hagan left a positive comment on Talia’s instagram saying that Oakley was strong like his Mum. Talia was absolutely loving this and was one of the few comments she responded to. There was a few replies calling Holly a snake and two faced. Aaron unfollowed Holly after this.
Talia and Aaron star in the Addams Family:
credit: @Redgirl81
10/12/23
Aaron goes on yet another alcohol fuelled rant and doxxes one of our own, claiming she outed his address where he lives with his 3 kids. The only thing that was posted was half a postcode where over 1k addresses are registered. He went on to his stories slurring his words with huge pupils and told everybody her name, her Instagram profile and claimed to have her address but this isn’t confirmed. His account has now since been banned or deactivated.
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