can't cope as a single mum and to a child with disabilities yet can go for PT sessions, hair doing, botox, lip fillers, dorito jaw fillers, nails doing, imaginary date nights, parking in disabled parking when out on the lash with friends, numerous weekly visits shopping, always with her mates, regular posing in the mirror half naked, videoing her fake designer crap for her and the kids.
Maybe if she didnt do all of that and was actually a parent to those children maybe she would feel like she can cope with the kids she wanted to have?
All the time she's spending on how she looks and her own personal time is time wasted when she could be resting when she hasn't got the kids, setting up activities for them, doing housework but everytime she hasn't got the kids it's Talia time which means spend spend spend.
If neither can cope with all three together, let arron have Oakley whilst she has the boys and then swap over just for the time being whilst oakleys care needs are so great right now. But Talia won't have that, she wants complete time away from those kids because she's a selfish cow. She won't sacrifice her Saturday night out for splitting the kids care.
Wouldn't surprise me if this has been reported by the community nurse and carer because her behaviour has been so bad and that's what she posts, I can imagine there's so much more neglect we arnt seeing that she hasn't posted.
My heart breaks for Oakley who should have all his family by his side, taking it in turns to be in the room with him cuddling him, talking to him, showering him with love. You can tell Talia just doesn't want the responsibility, she's not loving enough or strong enough.
People always say to me 'I don't know how you do it' looking after my disabled child and I take great offense at that. If your child was born poorly and with disabilities, you love them no less. As a mother, you have children because you want to love them regardless, you should be going into motherhood ready to take on anything that child brings because your wanting to create life. You step up and you get shown such a different take on motherhood, you don't experience a lot others do. You get robbed of a lot ... but you gain so much more that's taken from you.
You do mourn the loss of what you expected. It is a hell of a lot harder, physically and mentally. But you are given a new perspective on life when you have a child with significant health needs. You value health and life so much more. You get shown their world and you find yourself advocating, bragging about how amazing your kid is, wanting change in the world.
Talia is the one loosing out here. She's too selfish and vain for being his mummy. She's missing out on the amazing life of being a parent to a child with disabilities because she's ableist. She's materialistic. Cares what people think and a narc.