I’m gonna be honest here and apologies if others get upset by this.. but.. I think she wants Oakley to be unalived. He’s a huge inconvenience to her ‘influencer’ life. She’s banged on and on about her kids being preemies or having constant illness but once’s she got what she wished for - an unwell / additional need child all the other kids ailments went away.. she’s annoyed that she now actually has to be committed to this kid by attending appointments and that gets in the way of her taking nipple lift pics and pretending she has a bf.. all those babies deserve so much more than hellraiser banging on about being the same size as a 10 year old