Can I ask what Lj’s video was about ? Her account is private so I couldn’t see. She’s a lovely lady and has really supported Shan. I also really liked Chloe, she seemed a lovely girl and a good influence.
I really rooted for Shan the past few months, she seemed to come so far but watching her now is like last year…falling out with people, pushing people away, removing her mods and erratic behaviour on live…Is it possible it’s the time of year that triggers her and she’s having another breakdown or am I just making excuses ?
I know many have said ss need to see the live but Shan has said before that they do watch her so I’m pretty sure they will definitely be watching at the moment.
Saying yesterdays live was an ‘act’ doesn’t wash-if you’re kids were removed and affected by your behaviour then why on earth would you put them through more trauma to prove a point to, what’s essentially, a bunch of strangers
![Thinking face :thinking: 🤔](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f914.png)
if she’s learnt so much this year surely she will understand how damaging that it is.
Part of me is now wondering if she really wants the kids back, she’s NOT stupid and knows that ss are watching and that there will be people, especially the family members she’s fallen out with, reporting what’s she’s doing so you’d imagine she would be on ‘best behaviour’ so to speak. I know no one is perfect and before I’ve agreed that showing her flaws is reality, of course parents get stressed that’s part of life but this is more than a stressed parent
![Confused face :confused: 😕](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f615.png)
. She might be keeping the live on to prove she doesn’t physically abuse her children but what she’s showing is almost emotional/mental abuse, at times it comes across that she resents them. I really don’t know how this will pan out
I just posted the same about her not wanting the kids back, it really does seem that way