That birthday spread, decorations and card was 100% all her. Without a shadow of doubt. If it was made by him, it will have been under her STRICT instruction, and probably pre planned by her, sent back and rearranged until in was pinterest worthy. Having to organise your own birthday breakfast in bed, just so it's perfectly inline with your heavily staged instagram aesthetic has to be one of the most empty and sad things I've ever seen.
Grabs, you're missing the point in life entirely. You would have thought with everything going on right now, you'd learn to lighten up and enjoy life as it comes. But no.
I think she has MAJOR control issues. She can't let anyone do anything or surprise her for fear that it won't be utterly instagram perfect. That explains why their wedding was already booked and ring purchased before he'd even been allowed to propose. It's all about her controlling the way the outside world sees her and them. She clearly feels she needs prove a point.
My birthday breakfast from the husband and kids was a
bleeping pop tart with a bite missing that looked like it had probably been dropped on the way upstairs and some spilled juice, and it meant more to me than any of this staged
tit could ever mean to her.
learn to
bleeping live a little, you'll massively regret it if you don't.