It’s always quite surprising how much clothes can do! It always used to amaze me how my ex would look quite trim in his clothes and only I, as the only one to see him in the nudey, knew that he was actually a bit of a porker. Sorry that’s not strictly on topic but just something that fascinates me. Had a similar revelation when we did a work beach trip and I saw everyone in their swimming gear (I don’t think anyone was shocked about me, I am not someone who can hide their figure with a dress!).
to stay on topic, I’m half tempted to try buying one of her vinted bits, to see how long it takes and what sort of condition it arrives in, but I don’t really want to contribute to her financially even if it is only a few quid.