Well she just managed to confirm that she's not a model and not an actress either.
I thought she's a runner? Dafaq does she run like that? It's given me the ick.What is she supposed to promote exactly?
I assume that ‘creating content’ must take her 5 minutes tops, given the crappy results she shares every single time. Now, the question is: what is she doing the rest of the day?
Maybe she assumes because it didn’t work out with Joe the dream of a country house with 2 kids and a dog isn’t for her. Rather than just addressing the problems of the relationship to ensure her future one doesn’t end in heartbreak again she’s just chasing dreams that aren’t really hers. Niomi needs to do what she did after Marcus and be single for a bit and just enjoy time with herself, learn to enjoy her own company again and what she enjoys. 3 years ago she was hiding peanut butter from a guy and now she’s eating fish and dairy again for another man, both are unhealthy and show her inability to give away control but also keep control of what’s important, she’s an all or nothing kind of person, which is again clear from the way she blasts every new relationship on her socials. She doesn’t actually learn from failed relationships, she just drastically changes another part of herself and hopes for the best, but the bad habits creep back in again like it did with Joe and controlling his food and life like she did with Marcus.Yep. It's like she doesn't know what she wants...but she does know. It's painfully obvious. She wants the country house, the husband and the kids. Joe wanting to move to India was the first spanner in the works there (no wonder he proposed; it was a misguided act of reassurance). Then Forky wasn't ready. Now the Bali Swindler only wants short-term rentals (I'll bet their current flat is only rented until 1st Jan) and of course she can't sleep; I doubt she really wants to go back to Bali. They certainly couldn't settle there longterm due to all the cultural differences.
Lordon can tell her he loves her when she's "at her worst" all he likes, but unless he can provide a picket fence in Sussex in the next twelve months, I think he'll be out on his potato-loving arse. We all know he doesn't really want that; like Forky, he wants business opportunities and good PR. I'd expect someone with his background to use his social media to show he can do better than the misogynistic nightmare of his old businesses, but there isn't a shred of that. And why would there be if he perceives that Niomi will do it for him? (He perceives wrong, but there are only so many braincells to go around).
She knows what she wants, but she doesn't really know who she is. And the moon isn't going to tell her.
ETA: I suspect she's going for more right wing/men's activist types because they often do a good job of public chivalry, and it appeals to the part of her that wants security. The whole "I'm a traditional man at heart, I want traditional man things." They do it to manipulate women, of course, but she does have some trad wife vibes so I doubt she minds.
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Could give the gift of sponsorship x 2 for the price of that coat.
Because he kinda sees himself as a life coach.Why would a guy ever take dating advive from forky?
Unfortunately, NiomiforNiomi wants people to sponsor her, not the other way around.
girl, stay strongSorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
To love someone isn't stupid and you had trust in a longterm relationship and expected better of someone. I am sorry this has happened and you must be floored and in a state of shock, it will take sometime to heal and go through the range of emotions of ups and down but you will recover and be wiser. It is better it happened now and outside looking in is always easy for everyone else (like me) but no kids, marriage, house etc and it is a bind. I am not sure if you have anyway to break the lease and hopefully he is as liable for the financial commitment also. You wont be fucked up at all just talk about it with friends/family, process the feelings and any new relationship you go into it with your eyes wide open, trust takes time and give yourself time to get there. You got this xSorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
I feel for you so much (and have been where you are, trust me!). I promise you will not end up like Niomi. For 99.999999% of people break ups are a good thing in the long run, and in your situation it 100% will be.Sorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
I have already been thinking the same. Then my friend sent me this article this morning (about a mutual friend) and it just screams Niomi and Lordon!Guys how do we know it’s not Niomi who is the manipulative one in this relationship? She seems to be accelerating the relationship and doing everything to make sure she gets Lordy to commit.
This is all very fresh for you so I don't know how much it will help, but you don't have to end up lost. Things will certainly be difficult for a while. Of course they will. But the world is as full of possibilities for you as it is for everyone else. You will figure out what makes you happy in time.Sorry slight OT -
I feel so stupid you guys. I can’t believe I’m saying this but I am now in the same boat as Niomi. Last week my partner of 6 years came home one night and broke up with me out of the blue. He packed up his bag and left that same night. We had been living together for 5 years and 4 years ago I moved across the world to a foreign country to follow him for his work. He completely blindsided me, he’d never mentioned he had any problems with our relationship until that night. We had also just renewed our lease literally just a few weeks ago, so there was no way I expected this. He said he caught feelings for his colleague. Why do men keep doing this?! The pain is excruciating. Please pray for me that I don’t end up in the same place as Niomi. I don’t know how the hell i’m going to heal from this. This is the biggest shock of my life and it’s pure agony. Will this leave me as fucked up as she still is all these years later?
that's licherally my rent and I do need a new light parka, as my old one ripped and shrunk after close to 9 years of frequent use.