does anyone else feel constantly conflicted about how you feel about Niomi? like.. she is very obviously not a bad or malicious person. but..some of the selfish actions of hers are infuriating (the going out), others just frustrating (the controlling behavior with Joe), but I feel almost like she's like a child who doesn't understand? and in which case, it's hard to Dislike her for it? or is she just kind of stupid? either way its like.. if a kid does something selfish, you don't get angry at them because they simply don't understand. I know she is almost
30 years old, and the practical view is that there is no rational excuse for her behavior, but bc of her privilege and maybe also a low IQ, she really just doesn't understand, and so I just.. pity her? I am a DEEPLY empathic person so I'm sure that is part of this & I know some of y'all who have more practical opinions that I majorly agree with are going to be like - NAW DAWG FUCK HER SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP - LOL but.. just curious if anyone feels the same. I go back and forth on her so much more than anyone else I've ever followed. I dislike many things about her, but I can't help to still feel fondness and sadness for her in a weird way. AM I JUST TOO DAMN SOFT?