@Pontiac_Bandit similar bedtimes here. I usually can rock him back to sleep or feed and he will go back down for 2-3 hours so still tiredā¦ Iāll keep doing what Iām doing. Thankyou.
im finding it hard to find the qualities I like atm. Just feel let down and just keep thinking how selfish he is. When Iām on my own I feel more relaxed. As soon as Iām around him atm I feel stressed and on edge.
@Burrito88 Iām not sure if itās noise maybe, he starts to be unsettled for a while then finally wakes. Heās round the back of house so quietest part. Got back out curtains and blinds upā¦. Hopefully just abit of a phase, it seems a fairly new thing.
Thankyou, I think maybe speaking to someone would be a good idea just to know exactly where I stand with everything. I feel like I donāt wanna mess people around with Iām leaving him then Iām not. Obviously Iād like this to work out. The only thing is I know he wonāt leave the house, so Iād have to leave and yeah nearest and only family is 3 hrs awayā¦. And kinda scares me the big change.
we just see to have really lost our way, things have been awful for him at workā¦ I get heās stressed but he then takes that out on me.
@CallMeHollywood Thankyou, my parents were similar and my mum was miserable for a lot of years. I donāt wanna end up like that. I think they stayed together for us and convenience.