You would swear she was the first woman ever to have a c section.get over it Lisa you fool
Ah did you not see that she needed to be at home. I'd have stayed at the side of a cliff when my baby was in NICU if it meant I was near to her.BRÚ COLUMBANUS Is also across the road, but she’d have to mind herself there too!!
Didn’t think it would do her good to be in a strange place away from family but it’s ok to leave 2 tiny newborns who were just taken from their mum? Zero guilt & don’t get me wrong I wouldn’t judge any mum for taking a little break, I understand being there can take it’s toll but every second day with nearly an hours drive each way is taking the p**s. Her poor mum was thrown into it as soon as they were out. I wonder had she known how things would be, would she have encouraged Lisa in going it alone.Ah did you not see that she needed to be at home. I'd have stayed at the side of a cliff when my baby was in NICU if it meant I was near to her.
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So it went from every day to every 2nd day
I do agree with this ...right from the start it was about herself..I don't know what the ivf counselling is like but they missed something here ....she wanted a pregnancy, the kids she was not prepared for ....I'm not taking from the trauma of her section but even listening to her and all that was wrong with her during pregnancy...she was not in a good physical place to carry twins ...and straight after they were born she wasn't able for the commitment...transferring two was selfish...what clinic was she with ?Didn’t think it would do her good to be in a strange place away from family but it’s ok to leave 2 tiny newborns who were just taken from their mum? Zero guilt & don’t get me wrong I wouldn’t judge any mum for taking a little break, I understand being there can take it’s toll but every second day with nearly an hours drive each way is taking the p**s. Her poor mum was thrown into it as soon as they were out. I wonder had she known how things would be, would she have encouraged Lisa in going it alone.
I still haven’t got over her leaving her mum with a sick baby in the hospital because the chair beds were too uncomfortable . I’ve been in that situation & yes they are uncomfortable but my priority was my child, a good sleep was the last thing on my mind.
As far as I’m aware (please correct me if I’m wrong) IVF counselling is only a couple of sessions. Very unprofessional in my opinion, she was with Sims in cork, it’s very irresponsible for a clinic to transfer two embryos to a woman who was so obviously very unhealthy to begin withI do
I do agree with this ...right from the start it was about herself..I don't know what the ivf counselling is like but they missed something here ....she wanted a pregnancy, the kids she was not prepared for ....I'm not taking from the trauma of her section but even listening to her and all that was wrong with her during pregnancy...she was not in a good physical place to carry twins ...and straight after they were born she wasn't able for the commitment...transferring two was selfish...what clinic was she with ?
Its obvious that this clinic only cares about getting paid at the end of the day, which is so , so wrong.As far as I’m aware (please correct me if I’m wrong) IVF counselling is only a couple of sessions. Very unprofessional in my opinion, she was with Sims in cork, it’s very irresponsible for a clinic to transfer two embryos to a woman who was so obviously very unhealthy to begin with
There is support there for any traumatic birth experience vaginal or c section.I had my first section 12 years ago and I was left with PTSD from it, it went HORRIBLE wrong I had counselling and I needed to be medication for a few years, I had my second baby 8½ years later it was a lovely experience but because of my trama from my first second I had a meeting with the Dr's that would be doing my spinal, I wanted to be put under but they didn't but there was a plan in place if anything started to go wrong, but it didn't it was magical although it was my second cat 1 section my kids love drama but there are support to deal with after effects if sections
I’ve no time for people that put up cryptic posts like that. Pure attention seekingHopefully she is on the mend and this will be a big wake up call , no excuses and get yourself healthy.
I feel like there are so many at it these days. Waiting for the 'you ok hun'?I’ve no time for people that put up cryptic posts like that. Pure attention seeking
This she would do everything and anything in order to avoid parenting her twins. Sitting on her arse again in A&E taking up precious space for people who genuinely need medical treatment.I’ve no time for people that put up cryptic posts like that. Pure attention seeking