... the ridiculous efforts of Meme to pretend "to be perfect". She does is partly because she is insecure but to me her obnoxious almost daily posts about her workouts is also her way to make feel other people not as "accomplished" as her. Obviously she is preying on vulnerable people - mostly women. They see her saying she never misses a workout etc, sending them to their own non-ability to not be perfect all the time. She lives on the admiration of those people. It feeds her ego. But also those people are more prone to buy the products she sells in order to be closer from their model. She knows that and that's one of the reasons she keeps posting on a daily basis even though we can clearly see she doesn't enjoy it much.
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This is exactly the reason why MeMe annoys me so much.
1. Presenting perfect life that has nothing to do with her reality, mostly done to sell their products. I say mostly because over time she got so used to doing this that now it is a need - she doesn't know how to be herself on social media anymore.
2. Even when people call her out and point out inconsistencies, or make a wrong assumption on how she does everything so perfectly (balancing being a new mom/working "so hard" on her businesses/all while being so put together - in the past), she does nothing to correct them. Instead of saying - yes, I have a lot of help, she will instead hide Lidia and say it's because she's such a devoted parent who doesn't have any time for herself.
She's the first one to make someone else feel bad. She does it intentionally because she thrives on it. She will go on and on how important it is to stay with your child for 6 years even though that's not a reality for most families, or how breastfeeding was sooo hard but she decided before Alexa was born that she was going to do it, so she just didn't give up.
However. All this lying and pretending ends up hurting her in the end. She's the one with fears, she's the one with anxiety that keeps her up at night for hours and hours. She is not even capable of admitting it and calling it anxiety, it had to be something else - forgot the exact term she used - excitement about being alive. Yeah, right MeMe.
Keep lying to yourself. She's the one who has a breakdown when Alex leaves for a trip because she is not capable being on her own. All these years, she hasn't gone anywhere herself. Doesn't drive. Not capable of planning anything. But she will present herself as a fearless person who will go after anything, accomplish everything she sets her mind to. In reality she is a person who has a lot of help, who doesn't properly research her business ideas so they fail, and who gives up when they do.
