They say it's because they gay isn't attracted to the woman they are touching up. But then if a straight guy grabbed the boobs of a woman for a laugh but he didn't find her attractive (just like the gay man doesn't) it would be treated differently.Slightly off topic but the 'handsy' comment really annoys me. If it was a straight male it being 'handsy' could easily be considered sexual assault. Why is it not the same just because someone is gay?