I’m not going to lie
@theredgossiper, part of me feels awful for writing that post, but at the same time it’s incredibly hard to to ignore the way Lydia is behaving.
All four of my Grandparents died in the same year when I was in my teens and it was very nearly the end of me ... my grief was all consuming and I couldn’t escape it no matter how hard I tried. Thankfully my Mum realised I wasn’t coping as well as my siblings and had me referred to a Psychiatrist who specialised in Grief Counselling, so it’s definitely possible that my own experience is clouding my judgement when it comes to Lydia’s behaviour at the moment.
I’m not perfect, not even close, but I have always had a natural compassion for anyone who is dealing with a personal loss - however, when it comes to Lydia, for some reason I just cannot summon up any sympathy for her, even though it goes against everything I believe in and stand for.
Her poor Mother must be devastated by the whole situation and there’s her only child, posting on all of her social media accounts like she is completely unaffected by this family tragedy ... it’s appalling!
Personally, the thing about Lydia that seems seriously off to me is that the things she’s posting on Instagram and Twitter have absolutely nothing to do with her work, despite her claiming otherwise ... for all intents and purposes it appears that she’s simply taking this opportunity to show off and boast about the material things she is continuing to accumulate, and THAT is just not normal grieving behaviour.