There was definitely a big falling out with the deceased brothers wife though. Lisa was her bridesmaid when they married - now, no connection whatsoever. Yes this woman has moved on, remarried & had a family but the falling out goes way back to before she met her new husband. The rumour in cork is that Lisa’s mother ended up getting the life insurance for him. How that could happen when they were married, I don’t know. And I don’t know if it’s true. But definitively they were bosom buddies and now they don’t even follow one another or acknowledge