My heart breaks looking at poor old Harv.With his love of frogs,his iPad,carrot cake.He obviously doesn't like Carl,is frightened and unhappy,anxious.I imagine he has his happy little weekly routine with his carers and friends there where he is comforted and secure.Then comes performing seal time.How many takes does it need to get the phrases right? How much has that young man been through? How many men/father figures,how much drugs and fights? If he was a mainstream child without his many challenges that would still be enough to have consequences.The one person in the world that is supposed to be his advocate,his fight to the death for him..is basically his biggest strain and burden.