It’s a control strategy! You can’t leave me cos I got your baby! You owe me for life! She learned VERY quickly with Dwight, they are a great tool to be used! She got all the sympathy with that situation, Dwight got vilified and paid MASSIVE amounts that the evil witch got her sticky fingers on one way or another! Entrapment! She tries it with all of them!! Her damsel/victim bullshit, they are the only hero in her life, they’re the only ones she can trust, that can save her, once they’ve fallen for it, she’s bored! That’s when the emasculation starts! It’s almost like she thinks theyre dickheads for falling for her tales. Like she loses any respect and just hates them for being so pathetic! Having put it in so thick they can’t see beyond her dramatics. Narcs are whirlwinds of chaos! They bombard every sense their victim has with so many tragedies and takes if woe…all that they’re setting up themselves. They’ll get the woes of past, proven by probably an argument with an ex she’s caused by being a selfish twat, but she’ll hide and twist the truth to project her bike antics into the ex. Then they’ll be a disaster, the house flooding because she’s left a fucking tap on, orbit watched the kids and let them fuck about with things unattended, another meltdown of how she has SUCH terrible luck, can’t cope, falls to the floor for them to scoop her up and tell her it’ll be ok. If they eventually LEARN her tricks and step over her during one of these displays, she then has the ‘they’re HEARTLESS’ takes to the family to start their hatred against the terrible person! She’s constantly in a play. She has about 6/7 scenes she knows off by heart and just keeps inserting them at different times. This is her life. Playing the same scenes claiming to want a different outcome, but changing nothing to actually achieve that! She doesn’t want a different outcome. She likes the familiarity of knowing the shots how she’s living! She’s comfortable with that! She has control of that!