There is so much body shaming on here it’s unreal. It’s one thing to not like Jess and her hygiene but talking about her weight feels wrong. There will be people on here who are the same size, if not bigger and comments regarding body size could really have a negative effect.
By all means comment on her lack of showering, washing hair and general being a slob but seriously posting pictures about being the size she is and some of the remarks on here are just plain nasty.
I understand it's not nice to call someone fat and comment on their weight gain. But this isn't someone who has gone from a size 12 to a size 16. Jess is undoubtedly over 300 pounds and the way she eats will ruin her life. She has clearly got an eating disorder and this is what will sky rocket her to 500+ pounds if she doesn't sort herself out.
I've put on alot more weight than I'd care to admit. A month ago, I was at the heaviest I've ever been and tbh seeing Jess do this to herself is actually helping me make the change I've been avoiding for over a year and a half. Being obese makes you feel as sick as a dog, tired, lethargic, depressed. I suffer bad migraines now that I have to take sick days because it gets so bad and I physically throw up. At my heaviest, I wasn't sleeping well, I had no energy and I still do have a fear of developing diabetes not only because of my life choices but because diabetes runs in my family on both sides.
When I was smaller, I was so much fitter. I even did runs for charity. A 10K in London and the Oxford half marathon. I have never been stick thin but I've known a time when my body has been so much stronger and all I want is to get back to that again.
Yes, reading the comments can be triggering but I promise you, making a change because you are challenged by people is sometimes the only way for you to wake up. I'm not even 30 yet and I don't want to ruin my life because of living in denial with bad lifestyle choices.
Jess needs to make a change soon, if she doesn't her health will get worse, she'll probably have to stop working and her weight will get so out of control, Milly will end up having to take care of her. No one can make her lose weight, she has to make this life choice for herself and if she does she'll realise it's the best thing she ever did.
