Yes, she was so annoying.I didn’t see that bit, but she was incredibly annoying - I had to turn the sound down cos her yapping was doing my head in.
Yes, she was so annoying.I didn’t see that bit, but she was incredibly annoying - I had to turn the sound down cos her yapping was doing my head in.
Did he hoot as well?The one person whose voice I find more annoying than Jack’s.
Reminds me of Adrian mole when his voice broke-‘I trilled, wobbled, boomed & squeaked’
I agree wholeheartedly with you, dear Alan.although I think it’s fair enough for someone to use their wealth or successes to improve their lives, this is it- someone like Marcus Rashford or Jamie Oliver will acknowledge their privilege and say look I want to pay this forward while still being able to use their roots as evidence of their knowledge of a situation.
Jack implies in various ways that she is still suffering from poverty and disadvantage and this is simply not true.
I do feel conflicted often posting on tattle because I see that the thread subjects read here and are affected by what’s said. I also see that she does clearly have mental health issues, as do a lot of us here. And I genuinely wish her no malice. I just feel that here we can discuss things openly without any confrontation or invading of space. She chose to come here that day we (the Royal ‘we’ of the cabal) don’t go to her.
People in the public eye asking for money for nefarious reasons need to be monitored and there is insufficient regulation.
her behaviour may be influenced by her ADHD, autism, etc however these may also be being used as excuses. there’s been such a lot of great advice on these threads she could really turn things around. Have a private personal account I’m sure a lot of people inc. Nigella would still follow that and blow off your steam there. Have a large professional account run by management and share any scathing essays you want to go viral via it.
apologies for lack of capital letters I CBA correcting them.
one thing to add is I’m also one who worries about her potentially harming herself in some way, the mentions of CF etc weighed heavy, and I’d like to remind people that we are not to blame. Saying these things is quite abusive really and is designed to just get us to stop discussing the inconsistencies and shut it down. there are an awful lot of very kind people here and I know they are being caused moral and emotional harm by the allegations and suggestions made.
no influencer or blogger needs to read this forum, I’m sure it’s very tempting but it’s a choice.
Her way of harming herself is by destroying her relationships with other people. She is far too vain to hurt herself directly.one thing to add is I’m also one who worries about her potentially harming herself in some way, the mentions of CF etc weighed heavy, and I’d like to remind people that we are not to blame. Saying these things is quite abusive really and is designed to just get us to stop discussing the inconsistencies and shut it down. there are an awful lot of very kind people here and I know they are being caused moral and emotional harm by the allegations and suggestions made.
no influencer or blogger needs to read this forum, I’m sure it’s very tempting but it’s a choice.
See sometimes I don’t just talk shiteI agree wholeheartedly with you, dear Alan.
She had a few years of success in the states presenting reality TV shows.I am constantly confused as to why Cat Deely is still in the news and treated as a celebrity - literally what has she done since SMTV live? Or was it Live and kicking?
Only sometimesSee sometimes I don’t just talk shite
Perhaps. I wouldn’t like to say, I imagine sometimes she’d see it as a challenge when we laugh it off or a way to draw attention or lay blame and sometimes I think she’s really lost control. It is worrying watching sometimes but I do think some of her behaviour is very manipulative and has evidently worked to produce this mad echo chamber on twitter where she snaps the head off some poor person who then responds by bowing and scraping to her for fear of having caused offence.Her way of harming herself is by destroying her relationships with other people. She is far too vain to hurt herself directly.
I might be very hard-hearted, but I cannot abide mental health being weaponised. It's emotional blackmail, and I ain't paying up.Perhaps. I wouldn’t like to say, I imagine sometimes she’d see it as a challenge when we laugh it off or a way to draw attention or lay blame and sometimes I think she’s really lost control. It is worrying watching sometimes but I do think some of her behaviour is very manipulative and has evidently worked to produce this mad echo chamber on twitter where she snaps the head off some poor person who then responds by bowing and scraping to her for fear of having caused offence.
Yes I agree it has been weaponised. But then it visibly still exists, so I do also worry, tbh my worry is more for people here who it’s being weaponised against though. I don’t want anyone here thinking they’re in some way responsible for what she may or may not do or be going through. Our commentary is sometimes taking the piss out of her personality but as a media personality really, the real irritations with her are professionally & that’s fair bloody comment.I might be very hard-hearted, but I cannot abide mental health being weaponised. It's emotional blackmail, and I ain't paying up.
From what she’s said, I suspect her real life relationships are much like that too.Perhaps. I wouldn’t like to say, I imagine sometimes she’d see it as a challenge when we laugh it off or a way to draw attention or lay blame and sometimes I think she’s really lost control. It is worrying watching sometimes but I do think some of her behaviour is very manipulative and has evidently worked to produce this mad echo chamber on twitter where she snaps the head off some poor person who then responds by bowing and scraping to her for fear of having caused offence.
Ah I get you. The "be kind" thing became a handy shield for bullies, in a sick gaslighty way, didn't it? If we stick to facts and fair play, we do no harm.Yes I agree it has been weaponised. But then it visibly still exists, so I do also worry, tbh my worry is more for people here who it’s being weaponised against though. I don’t want anyone here thinking they’re in some way responsible for what she may or may not do or be going through. Our commentary is sometimes taking the piss out of her personality but as a media personality really, the real irritations with her are professionally & that’s fair bloody comment.
This is where those of us who grew up with narc mothers find it so triggering I think. You can imagine that if she’s like she is in public with her followers then she’s got to be similar at home. This may not be true. She exhibits behaviour which is quite terrifying emotionally, extremely unpredictable and deliberately worrying. She gaslights and like you say it makes you walk on eggshells.From what she’s said, I suspect her real life relationships are much like that too.
I remember that comment from her son’s dad saying that he had to “keep the peace”. And we saw all the pass-agg comments directed towards Louisa when Jack was doing DKL. I imagine everyone has to walk on eggshells around her.
Yes, exactly this dear heart.Ah I get you. The "be kind" thing became a handy shield for bullies, in a sick gaslighty way, didn't it? If we stick to facts and fair play, we do no harm.
I dont feel sorry for her.. I do feel sorry for her son though.Absolutely bloody right! In my opinion, a lot of her behaviour is likely down to innate personality traits as opposed to her being 'unwell'. She gets excused of an awful lot because people are concerned she isn't well.
A look back through her history shows us she's always been pretty much the same, same behaviours throughout.
I agree with what you are saying. She clearly goes after others such as David Walliams for example. But what if DW has sever mental health issues but chooses not to illustrate that publicly ? No one can go after her though can they and no celebrity really can call her out on her constant manipulative bullshit, they cant because she chooses to share her mental health issues publicly.I know she has mh problems, that is indisputable, but I spent a few miserable years attending drop-in groups, post-hospital, and I know how it works. It’s pure and utter manipulation, fostered and enhanced by staff who allow this because they are terrified of being brought to court for failing their duty.
The mistake that a lot of the Woke Brigade make is in assuming that the person concerned is less intelligent, and more vulnerable than they actually are. So they patronise and coddle the ‘victim’, to the extent that said ‘victim’ remains in a dependent state of mind. But an intelligent ‘victim’, as Jack is, knows that this is a good thing and can be utilised to their advantage. Thus , the situation continues in perpetuity. If anyone here, who has been in the same situation, thinks I’m wrong then I will absolutely accept that - it’s just my personal experience. Sorry for the long post.
She seems awful. I do think she's weaponised her mental illness, she's a professional victim. Always "sad", something is always tragic and wrong, she's always amazing and brave though.From what she’s said, I suspect her real life relationships are much like that too.
I remember that comment from her son’s dad saying that he had to “keep the peace”. And we saw all the pass-agg comments directed towards Louisa when Jack was doing DKL. I imagine everyone has to walk on eggshells around her.