Totally this. Online dating is completely soul destroying. I met my ex husband online dating in its infancy and it was so different then to now. I've been trying to find a decent relationship from it for about 13 years now. Had a few nice-ish few month flings but on the whole online dating is a pretty horrible experience .
), because I knew it was for the long term. She might have felt equally strongly about L and OH and thought this latest relationship was a serious deal. Who knows?Surely the undatebles
She doesn't realise SHE is the red flag
She tweeted it all around March 13th '21, if you can follow the threads back to that date!
She may have deleted it. She was really rude to a headteacher about the rooms that students go in when they need a period of time out or self-relfection. It is a way to remove those students from lessons when they being disruptive or aren’t learning and in those rooms members of staff talk them to find ways to find out why their behaviour escalated in that way.
A teacher she claimed lives round the corner from her and it terrifies her to walk anywhere near there.
I think possibly with L she knew it was over before it was over but with OH it was out of the blue, he was still rescuing her on the regular but I said from the start that would wear thin soon.1. I really hope she was tired after her tinder texting spree last night and that was the only explanation for the lack of birthday announcement after midnight (it is today isn’t it?).
2. The spiralling behaviours have definitely escalated. We can’t say that it isn’t justified because she wasn’t with OH as long as Louisa. If I had broken up with Mrs T four months in, I would have been devastated (don’t @ me with Uhaul jokes please
3. If these people on tinder and the dog are simply cast members in her spiral then this is going to turn into another summer 2020. The dog will be tossed aside and these people will be under the false impression that their interactions with her will be valid and confidential. Nobody wants to see the fallout from that.
4. As Lenny says, hinting at past relationships being abusive to 550k people is just not on, in any way. That could be SB’s dad ffs.
5. She desperately needs help. As mentioned repeatedly in our (circular!) discussions we are probably all in agreement that it won’t be accepted. This cannot carry on though, for her, for SB, for anyone in her immediate circle.
Sorry for the list. It is the only way I can remember everything.
I agree with you. She isn't bright, but she is manipulative. She's been rejected and she can't bear it, we've seen these patterns of behaviour before. Her social media platform is probably the worst thing for her right now. She'd be better off staying off it and licking her wounds privately, but as we know, she won't.
I’m not sure Jack feels like this about the people she is in relationships with. I think it’s the idea of being in love and someone being in love with her that she likes more than the person themselves. This is demonstrated by how much she lacks any decency when oversharing details about them online, about the patronising way she spoke to and about LJC, the way she was running around naked when LJC was working, moving her son in with Allegra after one date(?), the comment she made that Allegra said was a bit gauche, the nuzzling Harold’s brother, running her foot over his brothers leg, etc etc.2. The spiralling behaviours have definitely escalated. We can’t say that it isn’t justified because she wasn’t with OH as long as Louisa. If I had broken up with Mrs T four months in, I would have been devastated (don’t @ me with Uhaul jokes please
It's also the attention and validation, and having someone else in her world she can control. Narcissists absolutely hate being alone, not just in the relationship sense but in general, they don't fare well in their own company. They need that supply unfortunately. I suppose in Jack's case, she can get some of that from Twitter, though it won't completely satisfy as there's always that distance there, it's not the same as irl people.
Bit presumptuous of him!
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