The constant dead pets.Something about him being bullied at school because of her 'I'm Trans' Guardian articles. I sort of glazed over at the time because when you are looking at Guardian reading parents, they don't tend to tell their Primary aged kids to have a go at the kid on the grounds of transphobia and when you're looking at morons who would tell their kids to have a go at somebody in their class for it, they're not really all that likely to be sat at the breakfast table reading what Owen Jones and Sali Hughes have to say about the world because going OH MY DAYS THAT'S DISGUSTING and explaining to their kids what a bad thing it is in their minds.
The endless earnest discussions which surely burden him with adult worries.
The inverse parenting.
The comedowns from narc publicity highs. The hypomanic behaviour whenever she gets social media validation.
We called them moodsetters and it wasn't a compliment.I would also add, if not to much of a derail, that having a narc/NPD in the room is an absolute PAIN IN THE ARSE for other members as they tend to swan in, change the entire balance and atmosphere of the meeting, suck attention, create drama, gaslight, do inappropriate things like get involved in romantic relationships with other members, gather flying monkeys, make tension, manipulate, create a huge mess and then disappear. Only to pitch up a few months later in a different room, with a different persona and a different sob story.
Did I mention PAIN IN THE ARSE? Yeah, that.