Ahem @HotesTilaire put it better than me, I'm absolutely not suggesting that parents should have everything sorted immediately because I've seen plenty of surprises/unexpected events/costs etc (babies are just wild considering how small they are, it's energetically baffling, tiny black holes), but if you're listing off all this drama what do you expect your manager to say?
ETA I'm tired and can't seem to express myself properly but @hollowhusk I'm not at all judging anyone, this just comes across as though she found SB in a cabbage patch one morning and kept him on a whim.
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@PunkyMonkey I feel a bit sad for you worrying about how you come across because thee are plenty of non-autistic managers I’ve seen who literally do say to a tired single mum who’s mum was minding the baby bit is now is now unwell and the nurseries are full “well how do you think it’s gonna work, didn’t you think before you had a kid” seemingly without a second thought that they might have come across a bit strong, or like a judgey hole.
In Jacks case some or all of its lies so doesn’t really matter.
Too short? How?
ETA I'm tired and can't seem to express myself properly but @hollowhusk I'm not at all judging anyone, this just comes across as though she found SB in a cabbage patch one morning and kept him on a whim.
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@PunkyMonkey I feel a bit sad for you worrying about how you come across because thee are plenty of non-autistic managers I’ve seen who literally do say to a tired single mum who’s mum was minding the baby bit is now is now unwell and the nurseries are full “well how do you think it’s gonna work, didn’t you think before you had a kid” seemingly without a second thought that they might have come across a bit strong, or like a judgey hole.
In Jacks case some or all of its lies so doesn’t really matter.
Too short? How?