Just to add that women being conditioned to pity creepy-as-
tit men is how so many of us end up being murdered by them. I’m not trying to victim blame there at all, but that inherent impulse to be polite to and show concern for a wounded or weird man is drilled into us from when we’re tiny and it’s absolutely toxic. I think we can frame him as pitiable, but let’s not overdo it.
Lol
@Droosie123 do you know her, or just a stan? Firstly, volunteering doesn’t automatically make you a great person, although I’m sure she’s lovely. However, you must admit that actively searching your name and trying to “clap back” and calling it vitriol (she literally has done this to multiple people on the hashtag who didn’t tag her account in) is a bit weird. Sure, the tweets are critical but they’re not particularly personal and it’s a show which attracts millions of viewers. If she’d had so many abusive DMs I’m not sure she’d be seeking out more abuse. At worst people are saying she’s messy and clumsy and she’s so unperturbed by that she’s added it to her bio. Just my take on it, anyway, we’re all different.