Ugh I’ve literally joined because finally people are saying what I’ve thought all along. When I first came across him, I took it as face value that he became a dad and felt there wasn’t a space for him. Then it turns out he has another kid! Where was he when she was born? Why didn’t he quit his job to look after her?! I don’t know how people can accept treating one kid like a prince and ignoring the other one for years.
My daughter is almost the exact same age as their little one and it winds me up no end, crying at school, only going part-time, calling it ‘homeschool’ when they do anything mildly educational at home.
And while I have sympathy for the miscarriages, though I’ve never experienced it myself, I can’t help but wonder if accepting you won’t have any more children will be less painful than endless miscarriages. They have 3 children between them, I wish they could focus on them and it would stop them going through the pain over and over.