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She fan girls over anyone she sees as “cool”. They had this girl who’s a sex worker on the podcast. She was grand but made some ridiculous pseudo intellectual comments about how you can only call yourself a sex worker if you’ve “read into the history and politics” of the role 🙄 (so classist and pretentious - by that logic Anna who sells handjobs on a street corner isn’t a sex worker because she hasn’t “read about the history” of it).

The girl, while she seemed a nice girl was definitely trying to put this ridiculous woke, pseudo intellectual twist on the job. She made another comment that we shouldn’t use the word “ho” because it came from the black community. She does realise most words have their origins in some community 🤦🏼‍♀️. There’s a difference between a derogatory word used against a community and one which came from a community. Should white people not listen to or sing R&B music on the same basis? The whole podcast was full of this pretentious/contradictory shite and Jenny and Lindsay were lapping it up. They didn’t challenge anything and still say it was their “best podcast ever” and how intelligent your one was. If Rosemary Mac Cabe had said the same things they’d be laughing at her for being such a woke feminist.
I couldnt agree more, I follow that sex worker on Instagram and she’s some dose. Compared a man lodging a PayPal dispute with her when she sent him nudes as ‘rape’. She’s something else
 
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It is so easy to sway their opinion. At the start of the episode with the prostitute they said something like oh when we used to be sex workers or im the sex industry. Fast forward to after the girl said she can stand people saying sex worker unless they are being paid for sex and the girls did a 180 on how they described themselves. They are so easily swayed on anything. It reminds me of how younger kids behave around older teenagers. I cant listen to them without cringing.
 
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It is so easy to sway their opinion. At the start of the episode with the prostitute they said something like oh when we used to be sex workers or im the sex industry. Fast forward to after the girl said she can stand people saying sex worker unless they are being paid for sex and the girls did a 180 on how they described themselves. They are so easily swayed on anything. It reminds me of how younger kids behave around older teenagers. I cant listen to them without cringing.
Yep it’s like if they’re around someone they respect or think is cool, they’ll just go along with whatever they say. If the sex worker told them that feminism was actually cool they’d probably do a full u-turn and be promoting feminism the following week
 
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No I don't think the sex worker was saying she was raped for nudes, that would be ridiculous. She was saying if an escort wasn't paid for sex that it would be because they only agreed to sex if they get paid.

Completely agree about that episode though. The girls didn't challenge anything she said and the questions were boring and uninspiring to begin with tbqh. But it's great to see that Lindsay is so open to learning given her upbringing, and she did a live with the same sex worker at the stat of quar that was better than the pod
 
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they can't challenge anyone because they are not educated on any of the topics they discuss.. at least do a bit of research like
 
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No I don't think the sex worker was saying she was raped for nudes, that would be ridiculous. She was saying if an escort wasn't paid for sex that it would be because they only agreed to sex if they get paid.

Completely agree about that episode though. The girls didn't challenge anything she said and the questions were boring and uninspiring to begin with tbqh. But it's great to see that Lindsay is so open to learning given her upbringing, and she did a live with the same sex worker at the stat of quar that was better than the pod
No she said because she didn’t get paid for her nudes that man had ‘technically’ raped her
 
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Agree with everything said here re. Jenny.

She's unbelievably try hard - pretends to be a "weirdo" and "indie", but obviously looks down on Lindsay.

Thinks she's a genius, when she can't form a coherent argument without saying "what I meant to say was", when Lindsay calls her up on something during the podcast.

I wish she could have just shut her sizeable jaw during the latest episode and let Lindsay speak - she has absolutely no input into how a christian upbringing can affect you, but constantly felt the need to interrupt Lindsay to give her nonsense opinion about the church? You went to an educate together school, you repeatedly say your family are non-religious - shut up about the catholic church when you have little to no experience.

She makes out she's intelligent, but she's a walking dunning kruger example.

Also, if Evan is sliding into DMs, it couldn't happen to a better person; cheating on your bf of that long is rat behaviour imo.
 
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Agree with everything said here re. Jenny.

She's unbelievably try hard - pretends to be a "weirdo" and "indie", but obviously looks down on Lindsay.

Thinks she's a genius, when she can't form a coherent argument without saying "what I meant to say was", when Lindsay calls her up on something during the podcast.

I wish she could have just shut her sizeable jaw during the latest episode and let Lindsay speak - she has absolutely no input into how a christian upbringing can affect you, but constantly felt the need to interrupt Lindsay to give her nonsense opinion about the church? You went to an educate together school, you repeatedly say your family are non-religious - shut up about the catholic church when you have little to no experience.

She makes out she's intelligent, but she's a walking dunning kruger example.

Also, if Evan is sliding into DMs, it couldn't happen to a better person; cheating on your bf of that long is rat behaviour imo.
this made me lol you are so right 🤣

I think Jenny can’t handle the fact she’s just your average middle class woman, she’s had a plain and simple privileged life and it just isn’t interesting or ‘cool’ enough for her liking
 
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I couldnt agree more, I follow that sex worker on Instagram and she’s some dose. Compared a man lodging a PayPal dispute with her when she sent him nudes as ‘rape’. She’s something else
She comes across as quite embittered and angry. That would have been an interesting angle to explore on the podcast rather than 1.5 hours of glorifying the job (no problem with sex work but let’s be real about it instead of trying to give it this veneer and a woke/“intelligent” twist) - the woman clearly isn’t too happy in the role, someone asked her about her worst experience as a sex worker and she was saying that she wouldn’t answer and questions like that can be traumatising and open up past trauma. Jenny or Lindsay didn’t touch anywhere near that- not wanting to annoy or ask awkward questions of their “cool” friend. I felt there was A LOT that was unsaid in the podcast.
 
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No she said because she didn’t get paid for her nudes that man had ‘technically’ raped her
While I don't really care what people have to say about me as a person, you're entitled to think what you want, this is not what I said and I don't want my words misconstrued. I said that I hadn't been paid for an online service, which was theft, and I then added that had an escort not been paid for sex (or robbed after the act) that would then be sexual assault. I didn't say that I was raped in that case. I apologise if my points were not clearly distinguished and if it caused any confusion or upset, that's my error for not being clearer, but I would never trivialise rape victims and their experiences like that.

She comes across as quite embittered and angry. That would have been an interesting angle to explore on the podcast rather than 1.5 hours of glorifying the job (no problem with sex work but let’s be real about it instead of trying to give it this veneer and a woke/“intelligent” twist) - the woman clearly isn’t too happy in the role,
Am I angry and bitter, or am I glamourising it? Which is it? I talked about getting a chargeback on a service I provided which upset me, and it was taken the wrong way (partly my fault). Plus I don't think many people want me to come onto instagram talking about when I was raped, robbed, stalked and doxxed, because then people will just say "then why do sex work?". Not only could it be upsetting for others who follow me, I feel it's a double-edged sword and potential ammo against me. Of course sex work isn't all daisies and rainbows, like any other job that has it's ups and downs, but you can't deny that sex work is particularly dangerous and sensitive to workplace violence. I would rather discuss my trauma with my close circle and my therapist rather than blast it to hundreds of women on a podcast. I am of course happy to talk about these dangers, without going into details of my own, and try to educate people about the stigma, discrimination, and legal issues that sex workers face on the whole in society.
 
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While I don't really care what people have to say about me as a person, you're entitled to think what you want, this is not what I said and I don't want my words misconstrued. I said that I hadn't been paid for an online service, which was theft, and I then added that had an escort not been paid for sex (or robbed after the act) that would then be sexual assault. I didn't say that I was raped in that case. I apologise if my points were not clearly distinguished and if it caused any confusion or upset, that's my error for not being clearer, but I would never trivialise rape victims and their experiences like that.



Am I angry and bitter, or am I glamourising it? Which is it? I talked about getting a chargeback on a service I provided which upset me, and it was taken the wrong way (partly my fault). Plus I don't think many people want me to come onto instagram talking about when I was raped, robbed, stalked and doxxed, because then people will just say "then why do sex work?". Not only could it be upsetting for others who follow me, I feel it's a double-edged sword and potential ammo against me. Of course sex work isn't all daisies and rainbows, like any other job that has it's ups and downs, but you can't deny that sex work is particularly dangerous and sensitive to workplace violence. I would rather discuss my trauma with my close circle and my therapist rather than blast it to hundreds of women on a podcast. I am of course happy to talk about these dangers, without going into details of my own, and try to educate people about the stigma, discrimination, and legal issues that sex workers face on the whole in society.
thank you for engaging and giving your side of the story.
 
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thank you for engaging and giving your side of the story.
See there’s a good response to people’s comments. This is what tattle is about people’s opinions and her reply was polite and genuine
 
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See there’s a good response to people’s comments. This is what tattle is about people’s opinions and her reply was polite and genuine
I would have been really interested to hear more of what she said above on the podcast (not actual examples from her own life as I take her point and appreciate it is personal and sensitive to her). It’s interesting to hear about all aspects of the work- from the good to the bad.
 
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