I think the reason he became so blantatly undermining and crappy after the proposal was because he had finally caved and given her what she wanted and now he felt as though he could hang that over her head while being however much of an asshole he wanted. I think vic is actually pretty sweet (tone deaf - yes, and insufferable with all the rants recently) but I honestly think it is Alex that has brought out the worst in her - and behind closed doors encourages the moaning and digs at fashion week and the viewers and everything because he hates when her attention isnt directed at him and is directed at those others things instead, even though i dont think he even really likes her. I guess he just really desperately wants to feel superior, admired and loved at all times - and I feel sorry for her because she tries to keep all the balls in the air not realising he will never let that work.
The thing about moving to the country honestly sums it all up. She is the bread winner and the reason they can even afford a house at all but he gets his way and they move where he wants away from the things she loves and where her career thrives. Poor girl gives in to everything he wants because shes terrified of loosing him or him putting on the shits - little does she know she would be **so** much better of without him its ridiculousRe: Alex' rude behavior:
If you are an OG ITF viewer, ever since the beginning, Alex has ALWAYS BEEN undermining Victoria for all the things happening with her career.
Alex had a job, but he chose to leave and be the Instagram bf/husband all these influencers have.
Circa 2017-2018, Victoria wanted to get married, but Alex didn't want to yet. She even noticed it, but just played along with it. She just played along the fact that Alex isn't ready yet yada yada.
When Alex proposed, that when his true colors came along. He would step in and rudely barge into her videos. He would blantly embarrassed Victoria on some occasions. I think there was a Lapland vlog circa 2018 (not sure) that she wasn't able to bring Alex along and he was pissed off. By then, he would belittle Victoria in their trips and on their life on general, but shuts up when the brand gifts him stuff to wear or spray or whatever.
There was also the fact that Victoria wanted to stay in London, as there are the jobs, but Alex "wanted to stay in the countryside" because yada yada. And then, when Alex moans and complains, Victoria would do anything to appease her toddler husband, and thus them living in Milton Keynes.
But the truth is, Alex WANTS to be on the same page as his wife. He wants to be able to achieve what she has, gets what she gets. He wants to be an influencer, and is jealous of his wife. But, that is the only end game for IG husbands.
Examples of IG husbands are: Mario Gotze, husband of Anna Kathrin Gotze. Of course, Mr. Gotze is Germany's soccer legend. Noor de Groot's husband, Sander Kleinenberg. He is a DJ. The last example is Negin Mirsalehi's boyfriend is Mauritz Stibbe. He quit his job to be on the business side of Gisou.
Based on those men, IG husbands/BF have jobs, and doesn't rely on the girl's income alone.
Alex is an insecure piece of tit, and manipulates Victoria that what he thinks is the right thing. He knows he is crappy but he projects that shittiness to Vic. And Victoria realizes it, but shuts it up because she knows that people are jealous of her life, and she will do anything to keep that facade intact.