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@BettyCrocker everything you have said in this thread is so true.
I know it's hard to hear but I've been there and I wish I had someone being honest with me like you have been. As much as I wanted everyone to tell everything was going to be ok that simply wasn't true and made it much harder in the long run.
If a man can leave you after a long term relationship and cut all contact and demand that you not contact them for the sake of their mental health with no thought for your own mental health then he just doesn't care.
Please ladies try and be strong and start living life a bit. Pick a hobby or keep yourself busy, learn something new or do something to give your life some purpose. You'll feel better for it I promise. And if your men sort themselves out and do want to give it a go you'll be in a better place to make the relationship work. And if they don't then you'll have achieved something for you and will be a step closer to healing.
xxx
I know it's hard to hear but I've been there and I wish I had someone being honest with me like you have been. As much as I wanted everyone to tell everything was going to be ok that simply wasn't true and made it much harder in the long run.
If a man can leave you after a long term relationship and cut all contact and demand that you not contact them for the sake of their mental health with no thought for your own mental health then he just doesn't care.
Please ladies try and be strong and start living life a bit. Pick a hobby or keep yourself busy, learn something new or do something to give your life some purpose. You'll feel better for it I promise. And if your men sort themselves out and do want to give it a go you'll be in a better place to make the relationship work. And if they don't then you'll have achieved something for you and will be a step closer to healing.
xxx