Stress and exhaustion makes you lose your ability to think straight, that’s for sure. Are you going to contact him again at all? It’s completely ok that you’re not coming to terms with it yet. Don’t feel like you have to anytime soon, you’re human and it’s going to take time.
It's killing me not contacting him at all but it's what I said I'd do. I don't want to push him further away. I feel so lost and lonely as I'm used to seeing him every morning, getting messages from him throughout the day then him being there when I get home. I still can't get used to sleeping alone. If someone had said these things to me I'd have thought they were pathetic but this is hurting more than I ever could have imagined.Stress and exhaustion makes you lose your ability to think straight, that’s for sure. Are you going to contact him again at all? It’s completely ok that you’re not coming to terms with it yet. Don’t feel like you have to anytime soon, you’re human and it’s going to take time.
I never thought I could be this heartbroken either. I thought I’d be stronger than this but the reality is so different, I’m putting on a good front but I am absolutely dying inside. I don’t feel like I should be giving advice when I can’t even follow it myself! Are you eating? I was going to try and cheer myself up with a takeaway (wishful thinking) but I’ve woken up with a horrible cold
I'm eating more than I was which makes it odd that I'm feeling so weak and shaky so often. I've felt like that for a few days now. I hope your cold passes soon, that's the last thing you need at the moment.I never thought I could be this heartbroken either. I thought I’d be stronger than this but the reality is so different, I’m putting on a good front but I am absolutely dying inside. I don’t feel like I should be giving advice when I can’t even follow it myself! Are you eating? I was going to try and cheer myself up with a takeaway (wishful thinking) but I’ve woken up with a horrible cold
Your body is probably just so fatigued from everything you’re dealing with. I haven’t had a good nights sleep in weeks. It’s good that you’re eating more. It’s so easy to just completely forget to take care of yourself
I just wish I could do something to help my brain switch off for a while. The stress and anxiety is becoming unbearable but I can't stop thinking about it every second of the day.Your body is probably just so fatigued from everything you’re dealing with. I haven’t had a good nights sleep in weeks. It’s good that you’re eating more. It’s so easy to just completely forget to take care of yourself
Did you do no contact with him? Just asking out of curiousity? I hope you’re meeting goes okay
He didn’t speak to me at all for a month, I text him a couple of times and got no reply. Then a week after my last message, he text me. It’s all very weirdDid you do no contact with him? Just asking out of curiousity? I hope you’re meeting goes okay
I was wondering how you were getting on. You must feel really anxious waiting for it. Hopefully you'll at least get a proper explanation (not that anything excused his behaviour).
I’m curious about what he has to say. My mind is coming up with all sorts of scenarios :/ how are you doing?
I bet it is. To be honest I don't really feel any better. I'm eating and sleeping a bit more but I still feel constantly anxious and I'm still getting upset every day. Haven't heard from him and haven't contacted him.
Just be very careful. He may be making sure that you are still pining for him to boost his ego. My ex did that to me.
I have my guard up (I hope) I just don’t know what the hell he could possibly have to say to me at this point
I’m glad you’re eating and sleeping more, that’s a good sign. Sorry you still feel so anxious
do you feel like you’re waiting to be contacted? I feel like that.In a way I do but also not. I think he's doing his best to try and forget about me and move on when all I'm doing is waiting for him to see sense and come home. I just can't accept that this is it after so long. I think about contacting him all the time but I don't know if it will make things worse.I have my guard up (I hope) I just don’t know what the hell he could possibly have to say to me at this point
I’m glad you’re eating and sleeping more, that’s a good sign. Sorry you still feel so anxious
Same here. @gigi_93 take a look at this post when you've got time, it really put things into perspective for me
Apart from the bit about texts (we were together before they became a thing) etc. that does sound like my ex. Every time I saw her, she would say that she was missing me, didn;t have the same feelings about the new guy like she had about me, would write letters to me saying how much she missed seeing me etc.
