Is that always the case though? I totally agree narcs can’t see their kids as people in their own right, and more as an extension of them. But the narc type parents I know are often seemingly very close when their kids are tiny- because the kids don’t mind having their identity meshed with their parents. And the kids are deemed that bit more special than the average child by the narc parent. It’s later it seems to be more an issue- when they want to separate from parents, have their own views, perhaps not live up to narc expectations etc etcNo the tax payer funded protection does not automatically come with the titles. PWB and his wife have linked it to try to increase their victim status. The Yorks are Princesses but do not receive tax payer funded security- their father paid for it.
HFW as a narc would treat a child as a belonging, it's very possible that the child is theirs but she has so little to do with him that there is no natural bond as he's an inconvenience to her style of life - he's just a prop to be pulled out when required. In some ways that's a good thing and hopefully he will have an adult who does have a close bond with him.
Aware there are all sorts of narc parents though..
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