Just a thought ......
Y'know that business about Harry and Meghan trying to look at that display table without observing the pecking order etc ?
We have attacked them with "who do they think they are" and "how dare they" and "they should know their place" etc
But shouldn't we also consider the fact that for 30 odd years before Meghan infested the Royal enclosure, Harry was included in everything with the top team?
He was never made to feel like a spare part.
His feelings were always considered and he was included.
We all know that William had higher status but Harry was never made to feel left out.
It was all William and Harry as a kind of team and Harry had got used to that as the norm.
Then when Catherine entered the picture, the little team of 2 brothers had now become 3 but Harry was still always included. For example, he was in the room with William and Catherine when the Obamas visited.
This inclusion went on for years even though he knew he held a lower status than his brother and wife (and later children.)
So if, as evidence suggests Harry is thick as pig tit, isn't it understandable that he would think it was still ok to hang around on the edge of frame as he has always done?
It could be that while he was single it was an unspoken thing to include him in the top circle so his feelings werent hurt but as soon as he was no longer alone they just automatically closed the circle without spelling it out to him that now he'd got someone to cling to he must join the people lower down the chain from now on.
If that is the case, isn't it understandable that he couldnt grasp why after years of being in the "top" group he now had to take a huge step back?