1. Unclear. The show ended in 2019 and was already well underway by the time Meghans last episode aired in 2017. She has spoken about how lucky the show was to have that sort of longevity so I reckon the writing was on the wall by the time Meghan was scouting for a new man in 2016.
2. also unclear. I don’t think the order of service would have been released publicly. I thought Sam Markle had mentioned that Meghan asked her dad to disown his other kids and he refused. Her and Harry hadnt really spoken to him much before the wedding and his slip up with the paps was the ammo they needed to exclude him entirely. I reckon Megs was phasing him out long before he ever did anything wrong.
Thanks.
I remember thinking her family were trashy/trying to profit from Royal connection and I could understand why she had pruned them out of her life.
Now - and Im sure Im not alone - Im thinking, OMG her family were telling the truth!!!