She didnāt want the dad to see him because she has an obsession with wanting things to herself. At the time he was born they werenāt together as far as I am aware as she got pregnant in uni, I can only really go off what their closer friends have said/mentioned. He apparently had taken her to court countless times and each time she basically went against the court and didnāt let him see ru. I believe he only sees ru when he is at her parents but ru and his dad do talk and they do have a good relationship. Yes itās true, she has little to no friends and I think she likes it that way. The reason she wanted a sperm donor is not because of her eggs, itās because she didnāt want a dad involved like ru. She wanted something to herself that nobody else had to share. She didnāt like the fact ruās was on the scene and that ru had someone else to love that wasnāt her. I also believe her parents pushed her to allow his dad into his life. When jakey came along, according to her āfriendā (not really a friend as she doesnāt even like her lmao) she almost neglected ru in a sense that she wasnāt giving him much attention anymore, she was just shoving him on his iPad and on the Xbox his dad gave him whilst she was getting pissed in the kitchen with her new boyf. Thatās as much as I have as Iām not close with either of them, just know through others that are closer to them.