As someone who has been cheated on multiple times in the same relationship, idk how you get over it. I tried for a long time because I didn’t want to lose it but it was in my head constantly and it gives you so much insecurity within yourself, no matter who you are. Every minute they’re not with you you’re wondering what they’re doing, every time they’re on their phone you think they’re talking to someone else. Just horrid. It’s a cowardly thing to do but with these types of guys it unfortunately can come with the territory it would seemOr you'll have the women who are fine with the cheating as long as she doesn't find out.... (as though she doesn't already know what it is)
Personally, I don't know how they do it because I would lose part of myself trying to make peace with that arrangement. I'm sure the financial security and status helps but I don't think I pull it off. I'm sure the dudes see it as a perfectly necessary sacrifice because how else are they to preform at their best if their partner expects so much out of them