I will try to keep this as generic as possible. I think in whatever relationship you have in life (family, friendship, love)… when you really care about someone you will make the effort. Where there’s a will, there’s a way… isn’t it what they say? No matter how crazy, busy and complicated life may be on your end.
What I have seen in my 30 years of being in this world, having a brother, male friends and ex boyfriends is… if they REALLY like someone, you can tell. Men are more transparent than us in this stuff when we’re talking about THE girl and they go the extra mile.
We are different in the way that women sulk when things don’t go well but once we move on, we really move on. I am not looking back, buddy.