I agree it’s a great way to get close and spend time together. I think she’s doing a great job with the kids. Not fussed on him thoAs a fellow step mum I always used to manage my step daughters school work / home work. It helped me feel close to her and feel useful. Plus she clashed with my husband when he tried - both to fiery ! Just saying - it may be what works best for them and doesn’t necessarily mean he’s off shagging(Although they might be
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