Fathering Autism #75 Fie, fih, foh, fum, FA’s vlogs are so humdrum.

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its sad, she hasn't progressed at all in the last several years. I remember watching video of her pouring herself a glass of orange juice (from 2014), she needed help, but she had decent motor skills. If that had been reinforced and worked out she could've been far more "independent" in little day to day tasks, but I don't think she'd be able to do that at all even now.
Stay tuned for a new vlog where this is featured after Asa reads your comment. There will be 42 jump cuts from the beginning of the pour til the glass is full. It’s also day light when they begin and dark out when they finish, but it’s coming no doubt. Any other suggestions? I myself am waiting for the vlog where Abbie completes and files Isaiah’s 1040 form. She has til April 15th to get her act together.
 
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Wtf....oh Ab these toys are too young for you good job you are past these toys on this aisle....but wait here is a good toy for her........how the duck does that makes sense lol I’m so confused by them.
 
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I wonder if p & a are pissed that the 3 of them weren’t invited on the camping trip. 😆 you know it must burn asa’s butt that Isaiah is living the life he had to give up.
 
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I am sorry but what they bought at Target are not table tasks!!!!! They are freaking games that she will never learn the concept of.
 
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I wonder if p & a are pissed that the 3 of them weren’t invited on the camping trip. 😆 you know it must burn asa’s butt that Isaiah is living the life he had to give up.
I wonder if it ever occurs to them they could be grandparents next year if Isaiah ends up making similar life choices to them. Cilly will be a Glamma because she couldn't stand being a grandmother already when she's still trying to regain her wild and free early twenties.
 
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So right they are in overtime selling Priscilla!! I mean but think about it all she is really doing is 15 minutes film time with this Loving Mom so involved with Abbie. It is pathetic all because they read it here and so much in their comments about P doing nothing with Abbie. She can’t even fake the love for her child....I could just scream when she does that fake voice Great Job I ammm so proud of you Abbss high five. STFU you are only fooling the Leghumpers no one else!! I think it’s funny when they say they don’t watch Josh or bothered by the haters comments. There action l
 
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It's also hard to say how severe the ID is because they never actually TEACH her. Like with the "find a brown leaf" situation, or the issues @CoffeeMomof2 pointed out with the way they were playing Kerplunk...they don't break activities down into parts and make sure she understands them. They just assume she knows what "brown leaf" or "your turn" means, and if she gets it wrong they grab her hands and force her without any explanation. And that's not even considering the fact that, because they don't interact with her appropriately, she's often tense, bored, or angry and unwilling to comply...that also impedes a person's ability both to learn and to use the skills they've learned. Her parents are like the perfect storm of stymying a child's potential.
plus they make pretty much no effort to choose activities that are developmentally appropriate for Abbie, so even if they did break them down, she would never understand what to do. I can't imagine why anyone would choose the game kerplunk to teach something as basic as taking turns. There are tons of games for really young kids, for example Candyland, where there's basically nothing to it except taking turns which would obviously be better. I'm eager to get my COVID vaccine so I can schedule a trip and go throw my Kerplunk game into a volcano. I'm tired of repeatedly explaining the rules and constantly mediating conflicts when my kindergarteners, who are obviously way more advanced than Abbie, try to play that game
 
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Table task? Baby toys and toddler toys that is what they are. It’s really sad, these idiots failed her so bad. I can imagine after her diagnosis Pig wanted nothing to do with Abbie, yes every child is different but if they were consistent she would be so much more advanced it a little to late. Abbie has no interest and just wants to rock and listen to music and eat. It’s such a very very short span of 15 minutes filming that it looks like Abbies is doing all the things.
 
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Keep telling yourself (AND US) that Piggy girl
This should read...
Dipstick mama
Thinking about how fucked up my life is and how I'm a hot mess.
#FakeMom #BossHog #ScamFromAnywhere #DirectUpline #MorgueKit #SkinBeware #PhotoshopProfessionalWannaBe #HotMess #ConstipatedAteToMuchCheese
 
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It never ceases to amaze just how much Asswipe fits into the Narcissist role:

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1. They can't display empathy.
They don't express real sympathy or empathy. They don't really care if someone is having a bad day or if their grandma just died. It's part of life and if it doesn't directly affect them, they don't care.

Their lack of empathy can be expressed in a wide range of ways, from being insensitive to you if you're having a rough day to being a jerk to the guy at the post office who was moving a little slower than normal.

While most people could think, "maybe they're having a rough day," or, "you never know what someone is going through," a narcissist doesn't care either way and doesn't have time to feel for someone else - they're too busy being important.

2. They make all of the decisions.
Whose deciding where you eat tonight? What about what vacation spot you're going to? Who makes the call on where to move and for whose career ?

Healthy relationships make decisions together, as partners. But with a narcissist, they get to call all the shots. They make every decision with only one person in mind: themselves.

And if you try and question them? You're a terrible person and they'll make sure you know it.

3. They're not nice.
They're not nice, and maybe even kind of mean. They don't empathize, they don't think of your feelings, they don't take others into consideration at all, and they can be downright rude because of it.

They may be rude to the waiter at the restaurant, the cars around them while driving (they have awful road rage), their coworker who didn't do something exactly right, or to you.

They may put you down in subtle or not so subtle ways, especially if it builds them up in the process.

For example, they might say something mean about you and compliment themselves on the same thing in the process.

4. They get upset over little things.
They struggle with emotional management and emotional maturity. They get triggered by the smallest things and allow minuscule details to upset them.

If something is just slightly off, their whole mood could explode.

You constantly feel like you're walking on eggshells around them, hoping not to do or say something upsetting on accident.

5. They don't respect boundaries.
They allow you zero privacy. Zero.

Your phone? Theirs for the taking. Your private conversations? Theirs for the reading. Your diary? Don't even bother putting it away.

They don't respect your boundaries at all and allow you no privacy.

If you try and express your discomfort with their overstepping of boundaries, they'll definitely try to pin you as the "bad" guy. If you get upset that they took your phone and went through it, they'll try and turn it back on you saying if you had nothing to hide, it wouldn't matter.

Healthy relationships do have boundaries, privacy, and respect. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

6. They think they're "special."
They have a sense of self-importance and desire (or even require) constant praise and admiration. They may truly believe they were born "special" or cut out of a different cloth than others.

They act and think like they're better than others and above others, including yourself. They expect to be recognized as special and get upset if you try and bring them down to the real world or sing the praises of anyone else.

7. They're deeply materialistic.
They dream of money, cars, fame, and fortune. They want to "make it" someday with riches and fame.

They gauge their success and the success of those around them on material wealth alone. They even base happiness and worth on material possessions.

Their borderline obsession with materialism trumps all other aspects of life. They may not even believe that happiness can be achieved without money and expensive "stuff."

ALL THE THINGS!


8. They don't allow you (or others) to talk.
They dominate conversations and allow little room for feedback or opinions. Even if they're joining in someone else's conversation, they have to take it over and speak loudly, even talking over other people.

They definitely don't listen when you have something to say, but instead make sure they have something of greater importance to say. If you try and tell them about your day or have a conversation, they'll shift the conversation to focus on them and not allow you room to talk.

They value their own voice and thoughts over everyone else's, so it comes as no surprise that they don't enjoy listening to others or having two-way conversations.
 
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Was wondering if anyone here has had trouble with their alerts bell? Mine has not been working since Saturday P.M. I have checked preferences and all is checked correctly, next I tried logging out and back in still no luck. I have also done a restart but that didn’t work either. Any suggestions are much appreciated. Thanks!
 
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