If he’s 40, I’m 21! His cringe opener screams 60 at least!I feel violated. I'm not a million miles off 40 and I look a damn sight better THAN THAT (7 years off but hey hahaha)
If he’s 40, I’m 21! His cringe opener screams 60 at least!I feel violated. I'm not a million miles off 40 and I look a damn sight better THAN THAT (7 years off but hey hahaha)
Think the number 1452 on his profile is more like his year of birth tbh.I'm sure he was 40 once. 1995 maybe?
Joe Exotic??Any idea what this means?
Just realised I was also not born in this millennium if I was that would make him even creepier as I'd be 21 tops!AND the reason I avoid POF like the plague. WTF IS GOING ON HERE. I am not called Jan. And if that guy is 40 I'm 18
It’s from a Charles Bukowski poem.Any idea what this means?
For me, there’s a fine line between being sexual and being sleazy.What’s wrong with men being sexual? I need that fun vibe or I won’t even bother talking to them
I guess it is also down to individual preferenceWhat’s wrong with men being sexual? I need that fun vibe or I won’t even bother talking to them
I just want light-hearted, fun and chatty if I'm talking to someone on the apps. Being jokey/flirty is fine but I don't want anything turning sexual if it's someone I'd like to go on a date with.What’s wrong with men being sexual? I need that fun vibe or I won’t even bother talking to them
What's the gap, if you don't mind me asking?Date update - went well. Seeing him for seaside walks (he’s bringing the dog ) and lunch tomorrow. We have a slightly big age gap but he’s lovely.
Completely agree. A guy messaged me and a few messages in asked what I was looking for. I said dating with a view to long term. He said he wanted the same. Then next msg was 'I'm so horny' i immediately unmatched cos WTAF?!For me sex talk in the context of having a one-on-one long conversation on an app, or if you've been on a date or whatever, is totally different to what the sex pests on apps do on their profiles or in their first message. Throwing sex talk out there to absolutely everyone who sees them just screams 'I'm so desperate,I have no limits and no clue about appropriate boundaries and will only use you as a sex toy, who you are does not enter into this equation'
The worst for me is when they just slip it in there to look quirky and cheeky like 'I love dogs, travelling, gym, beer, and giving oral'