OF COURSE he’s a short arse with that attitude.
Dating after lockdown #4 The bar for men is so low it's in hell
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Perfect example I've just come across
Do the simple thing? How about you doing it, ya lazy bastard!
I matched with a guy on Tinder some time last year, we followed each other on Instagram and spoke a little on there but he never replied to my last message so I just left it. I was having a little (passive aggressive) Instagram clear out and decided to unfollow him as essentially he's just a stranger, and he just messaged me now saying "when and why did you unfollow me?" 
wth.
wth.I know this guy has appeared on here before but I think I missed the male stripper bit. I’m sorry but I would not want to pay money for this. Don’t get me wrong, love muscles but there is something about when they’re overbuilt that is just 
Also what do we think about guys putting their kinks on? I mean it makes it easier to avoid the ones who don’t have similar desires but I can’t help feelthat the ones who declare themselves as dominant really don’t get it. Far more likely to be playing at it and think it equates to forceful and controlling rather than the proper care of their partner
Also what do we think about guys putting their kinks on? I mean it makes it easier to avoid the ones who don’t have similar desires but I can’t help feelthat the ones who declare themselves as dominant really don’t get it. Far more likely to be playing at it and think it equates to forceful and controlling rather than the proper care of their partner
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The guys who ghost you then stalk you on Insta are the strangest!! I have a couple too and every so often I do a clear out.I matched with a guy on Tinder some time last year, we followed each other on Instagram and spoke a little on there but he never replied to my last message so I just left it. I was having a little (passive aggressive) Instagram clear out and decided to unfollow him as essentially he's just a stranger, and he just messaged me now saying "when and why did you unfollow me?"
I genuinely think he was photoshopping his head on that body and possibly even altering that shape of the body. Who has a bum like that?I know this guy has appeared on here before but I think I missed the male stripper bit. I’m sorry but I would not want to pay money for this. Don’t get me wrong, love muscles but there is something about when they’re overbuilt that is just
Also what do we think about guys putting their kinks on? I mean it makes it easier to avoid the ones who don’t have similar desires but I can’t help feelthat the ones who declare themselves as dominant really don’t get it. Far more likely to be playing at it and think it equates to forceful and controlling rather than the proper care of their partner
Regardless, bodies like that don’t appeal to me.
There are a few more pictures of him that show his face and aren’t photographed but there is definitely a filter going on.
It’s just not appealing at all
Meant to say, don’t judge me for still having his photos on my camera roll. They were too outrageous not to delete
True dominance doesn’t need to be stated. He’s probably watched 50 Shades and bought a ball gag.
Why take a picture with a toilet? And, it’s got the lid up!
It's icky when guys post mirror selfies like thatWhy take a picture with a toilet? And, it’s got the lid up!
I'd rather they posted photos which have been taken of them.
I had one of these for ages. It was one of the first people I ever met from Tinder. He ghosted me (which at the time messed with my head quite badly, I was new to apps and thought it was a reflection on me) but then would jump onto my Insta stories within minutes of me posting them. It was like he had an alert set up. To this day I don’t understand that behaviour. Really I don’t. One of you ladies with straight male friends ask them WTF it’s all about
I would avoid them like the plague. Such a red flag for an abusive personality. I've read lots of writing about it eg
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I just went to M&S to pick up some fruit and oh my God, there was this block in front of me that had the nicest, tightest buns I’ve ever seen. I just couldn’t stop staring haha! He’s an Estate Agent, so it’s a no for me (the nasty ex was!) but wow! Why don’t I get men with a butt like that…
swipe left and the ‘non-vanilla’. I want a varied and adventurous sex life, but I’m no dom or sub thank you. It’s more about power than sex and is actually quite tedious!
That’s some bad photoshopping there. His thighs are literally one! What a knob head!
Yep
swipe left and the ‘non-vanilla’. I want a varied and adventurous sex life, but I’m no dom or sub thank you. It’s more about power than sex and is actually quite tedious!That is not him and also men do not carry fat in their arses. That is a women’s bottom my lord!Why take a picture with a toilet? And, it’s got the lid up!
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I went on a date with a guy a few weeks ago. He barely replied to my texts so I left it, but he still watches my stories.
Having said that, I dated a guy and we still follow each other on Instagram even though I told him I didn't want to date him anymore. I still look at his stories just because they're in my feed
I had an unplanned video chat last night with this guy, D. I can't figure him out, sometimes he's lovely and sometimes he's a right prick 
If he's already being a prick, bin him. Listen when people tell you who they areI had an unplanned video chat last night with this guy, D. I can't figure him out, sometimes he's lovely and sometimes he's a right prick
I think this is the best advice! I went through this with someone, I was blinded by them and chose to ignore the red flags, even though they threw them out left, right and Centre. I was noticing the things, because I was telling friends about them but I was so sucked into my own fairytale of how amazing I thought they were and how I thought it would all work out in the end and in the end it ended badly. My mental health crumbled, they checked out but strung me along until they could lay the blame at my door that I caused the end of the relationship, and even then they dragged the break up out for 3 weeks whilst they decided what they wanted. It was a learning curve and a half and having now met someone new who’s completely different I kick myself for letting myself ignore those very very obvious red flags.
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